How do you deal with a jealous EX-?

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    :confused: I have often wondered, just how folks do it, and how they handle it, when it comes their way? I have been divorced from this guy, since june of 1975.Went to move on with my life, and if he could not find me, he would bug my family.We had 3 children together, and they are all grown up with families of their own." He wants his cake and eat it too"!!!! Anybody got any hints as to how to handle this situation? and what would you do?
     
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    murder ..suicide..
     
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    How about a restraining order? Good thing you divorced this nutjob.
     
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    sleep with his brother
     
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    if he's stalking you, talk to a lawyer who specializes in the area and explore the possibility of a restraining order. they won't stop a bullet, though, and if you think you're in danger, then you should look into women's shelters if you need one.

    good luck.
     
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    Women's shelter my ass. Buy a gun and learn how to use it if you think he presents a real physical threat to you.

    I would however go the restraining order route at a minimum. I mean, c'mon ... 1975? You must be blistering hot for him to keep after it 30+ years.:lol:
     
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    Like Gunny said buy a gun, get a restraining order for legal reason. For one if you kill him you want a paper trail! But I would get a gun, you hear to many times women getting killed over this crap.

    And called to see someone else from Washington here!
     
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    My 1st ex husband was like that. I was only 16 and he used to beat me up, we had a cycle, he would go to jail, I would get a restraining order, he would get out of jail and say he was going to kill me unless I went back to him, I always got scared and went back. We never had kids together, but when I was 23 I decided to leave him for good. So what I did was write him a letter and sealed it then I put the letter in a bigger manila envelope and mailed the letter to my friend in Missouri and she took the letter out of the manila envelope and mailed it for me with no return address but a "missouri postmark" and I escaped and never saw him again. Since your kids are grown you could move away and request they dont give your info out. But if thats not possible and your life really is in danger you might have to go into hiding.
     
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    i don't think anyone should get a gun unless they are absolutely certain they will use it when necessary.
     
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    Hey, were you married to my x-husband?
     

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