I have often wondered, just how folks do it, and how they handle it, when it comes their way? I have been divorced from this guy, since june of 1975.Went to move on with my life, and if he could not find me, he would bug my family.We had 3 children together, and they are all grown up with families of their own." He wants his cake and eat it too"!!!! Anybody got any hints as to how to handle this situation? and what would you do?