Flirting

[dilloduck]

There is harmless flirting (making people feel good) and then there is cybersex and seduction (making people feel really good). I'm a flirt. Always have been. I do it right in front of my husband who thinks it's part of my charm. Perfectly harmless and only an insecure partner would get paranoid about it. He flirts with my friends too.

Most rational answer yet. People flirt because it makes them feel good. Get those chemicals flowing.

 

[Grace]

Depends on the flirting.

 

[Lumpy 1]

I've always been a believer in goal oriented behavior. What's the point in flirting if you already have a mate ? Isn't it sort of a fine line to walk ?

Where is Lumpy when you need him?

I'm here....

 

[dilloduck]

Depends on the flirting.

harmless flirting ? Define please.

 

[Lumpy 1]

There is harmless flirting (making people feel good) and then there is cybersex and seduction (making people feel really good). I'm a flirt. Always have been. I do it right in front of my husband who thinks it's part of my charm. Perfectly harmless and only an insecure partner would get paranoid about it. He flirts with my friends too.

I'd say you nailed it.. Darlin..

 

[Lumpy 1]

Depends on the flirting.

harmless flirting ? Define please.

I consider non-goal oriented flirting to be innocent.

I believe I make it perfectly clear that I love my wife and family. I honestly have no ulterior motives other than what Chanel somewhat described...just kinda friendly fun...that is all..

 

[dilloduck]

Depends on the flirting.

harmless flirting ? Define please.

I consider non-goal oriented flirting to be innocent.

I believe I make it perfectly clear that I love my wife and family. I honestly have no ulterior motives other than what Chanel somewhat described...just kinda friendly fun...that is all..

Flirting is all goal oriented. As Chanel clearly stated--the purpose is to feel good.

How that is accomplished is another question.

 

[Shadow]

There is harmless flirting (making people feel good) and then there is cybersex and seduction (making people feel really good). I'm a flirt. Always have been. I do it right in front of my husband who thinks it's part of my charm. Perfectly harmless and only an insecure partner would get paranoid about it. He flirts with my friends too.

Is there flirting with the intent to do "harm"?

 

[JBeukema]

They still advertise phone flirting? I thought that went away somewhere around 1992.

oh ya--a half naked chick says to call in cause it's fun.

Yeah, and I'm sure all the women these losers call look JUST LIKE the 19 year old hot bods in the ad!

And I'm sure we all look like our avatars

 

[JBeukema]

I say hello to wimmen and they immediately think I'm flirting with them. I ignore them and they think I'm an asshole (not too far from the truth actually).

Oh well.

When i talk to women, they tend to think I'm a flirtatious asshole

 

[dilloduck]

I say hello to wimmen and they immediately think I'm flirting with them. I ignore them and they think I'm an asshole (not too far from the truth actually).

Oh well.

When i talk to women, they tend to think I'm a flirtatious asshole

Some like it---you only need to catch a couple a day.

 

[Lumpy 1]

I think .. when people post they reveal part of themselves in their writings, a big heart, a kind soul, gentle loving natures, a spicy side perhaps.

I see no problem in recognizing their gifts and commenting on it in a respectful manner. I just figure it's merely acknowledging something their already aware of and showing some appreciation for what their offering up...

 

[dilloduck]

Spicy side perhaps ? Get real Lumpy---try sexual side.

 

[Lumpy 1]

Spicy side perhaps ? Get real Lumpy---try sexual side.

I don't mind talking about sex either...

 

[Shadow]

Spicy side perhaps ? Get real Lumpy---try sexual side.

I don't mind talking about sex either...

Yes you do...shall we test that theory out later? I have a topic in mind.

 

[Lumpy 1]

Spicy side perhaps ? Get real Lumpy---try sexual side.

I don't mind talking about sex either...

Yes you do...shall we test that theory out later? I have a topic in mind.

...Golly ...what would Father Dilloduck think...?

 

[Shadow]

We can ask him later if you want...

And anyway...told ya...

 

[AquaAthena]

What's the deal with married people flirting----home life suck ?

Dilloduck baby, just need you to know that in the one year and one month I have been here, I have never considered any of the *boyz* to be seriously flirting. They're just having some fun because let's face it....the Internet IS much more stimulating than most marriages.

 

[Big Black Dog]

What's the deal with married people flirting----home life suck ?

Married... Not dead.

 

[dilloduck]

What's the deal with married people flirting----home life suck ?

Married... Not dead.

gotcha-----tease but no touch.