Joan
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- Aug 29, 2003
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Lanyce - how could anyone call someone in your position a baby-killer or non-Christian. I had a sort of similar circumstance with my first pregnancy - but with happy results. Around my fourth month, I started bleeding quite heavily - I was put on bed rest, but that didn't help. My doctor then put me in the hospital where I was receiving vitamin K shots every 4 hours. One day the nurse happened to leave may chart on the table when she left. Being the nosey person I am, I took a look. Under diagnosis were the words "incomplete abortion" . I about freaked out. I was crying when the nurse returned. I told her what I had seen - and she told me that abortion was the proper terminology for a miscarriage. But for quite some time, I felt that the nurses in that hospital thought I had tried to have an abortion (which was illegal at that time). I did give birth to a 4lb 7oz baby boy about 4 months following. I feel your pain and completely understand your situation. I consider myself a decent Christian also, but I don't think its our place to judge others.