No. The standard is independent of what man does or desires. The standard is.Wrong. The standard was never that. Not every man beat his wife. The standard always existed even when it wasn't accepted. Which is exactly my point, the standard is independent of what man desires it to be.Not sure what your point is here exactly.Even before that there were men who behaved decently and it was those results that showed what the standard was. It couldn't be just anything we desired. Standards exist independent of what we want. Standards exist for logical reasons. And when we deviate from those standards predictable surprises will eventually occur. It's all very logical.
And the men who didn’t “discipline” their wives were considered whipped, not in charge, not keeping the woman in line, tolerating lip, and the dress-wearer in the family.
You do know about the saying, “the one who wears the pants in the family.” While not about wife-beating per se, it’s a direct reference to how a man should be the ruler of the house.
It certainly does not negate that not all behaviors lead to equal outcomes. Or that standards exist for logical reasons.
Or that when one deviates from the standard that predictable surprises will eventually occur.
It means that the standard used to be “beat your wife.” The government agreed with it, the church agreed with it, and the neighbors suspected you weren’t wearing the pants in the family if you didn’t do it.
Thanks for proving my point.
So the standard is what EVERYONE does?
And you think everyone agrees on them?
Ok.
I think the closest thing to a universal standard is don’t kill people and the human race can’t even get that one right.
Not everyone has to agree upon them. Nature has a funny way of teaching us lessons when we normalize our deviance to the standard.
I'm not sure why this is such a difficult concept to grasp for a logical thinking woman like yourself. Standards are logical because there are consequences to our actions.