Rikurzhen
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The men are being masculine and macho when they make a baby then turn their backs and walk away from their own flesh and blood without even looking back to see what they've done. That's just fine and dandy with the conservatives. Notice no male gets chastised for making a woman pregnant then walk away from his own flesh and blood. We don't hear men talking about that or doing anything about it.
I have absolutely no problem with bringing back shotgun weddings, you know, a way of holding men responsible.
I've never seen any threads or any posts by any man condemning men who make a child and then walk away from their own flesh and blood.
You apparently never frequent conservative websites.
It's easy for you to say you support shot gun weddings. I don't see you doing anything to stop men from walking away from their own flesh and blood.
I'm a man, I'm telling you that I'm willing to live under such laws and social rules. My misbehavior will have consequences for me under such rules.
Shot gun weddings aren't the solution. All they do is cause divorce.
Sure they're a solution. Divorce also has to be made more difficult to obtain. This really makes men and women responsible. Or at least more responsible than at present.
The solution is for our society to not accept men who walk away from their own flesh and blood. For our society to make sure all men not just financially support their kids but emotionally and mentally too. Spend time with them. Read to them. Show them love, trust and security.
Look, the problem here is women, not men. Most of the women who are single mothers thought the men they were sleeping with were good enough to be sex partners but not good enough to be husband material or they set their sights too high and got pregnant and now they can't find a man willing to support the spawn of another man. Of those who were once married, women initiate over 70% of divorces.
You know the saying about men who don't want to commit, where there's a female counterpart which is also a truism, women don't stay committed.
Until that's happening men have no right to say one word about women who are responsible to make sure they don't have a child who doesn't know their father, by using contraception.
I'm not saying anything about your choice to use birth control. Not a damn thing. I'm just telling you to keep your hands off my wallet. See, nothing about your birth control, everything about your thievery.