that's what it means to be a hard wired instict. you don't consciously think of it as anything but a desire.This article is pure bullsh-t. The attraction between a "man and a maid" is a mystery.
Also, I have always been attracted to 'curvy' women but their 'childbirthing' abilities related to this never occurred to me. When I see a nice set of boobs I don't envision a baby suckling on them, or a nicely shaped 'lower unit' popping out kids. I see these qualities pleasuring me visually and sexually.
like food. or sleeping. you don't need to rationalize any of those desire either, but you do them.
did you not desire to eat or drink until you were old enough to learn the facts about calories and digestion?
no. that;s ludicrous.
fucking's the same.