Women In Committed Relationships (with Men)

[iamwhatiseem]

I think of it this way... if you love your man, you'll want to stay fit and look good for him... no?

Will you marry me?


Of course it goes the other way also...if a guy becomes a fat slob eating cheeseburgers everyday it is the same.

well if my hubby dumps me (which he won't!) so I'll just laugh along with you on that one....

Then theres hope!!!!!

 

[Bonzi]

but seriously I can't be the only woman that understand this concept... good gosh!

 

[iamwhatiseem]

Rarer then you might think Bonzi.
How many know how easy it is to cheat?
I am a decent looking guy, also tall which women seem to like for sure...over 26 years of being married I must have at least had 10 solid "sure thing" chances. And I assure you - not one was encouraged by me.
So any woman's husband who is a decent looking guy - your man is not just getting hit on...but outright invited to cheat. And you would also be shocked to know that almost all of them know you, or even someone you consider a friend.
I am not even counting of course the "looks" you get at a bar, or maybe some gal who strikes up a convo at the grocery store...or someone flirting a bit at a party...no. I mean outright sober put it all in front of me invitation.
It happens to men more than women. AT least I am willing to bet.

 

[Gracie]

Yet another bait thread, eh?

 

[Bonzi]

Yet another bait thread, eh?

I love you too Gracie

 

[Gracie]

One can never tell with you, which is why your threads are slowly turning in to Jeri Threads. Ignored.

 

[ChrisL]

Rarer then you might think Bonzi.
How many know how easy it is to cheat?
I am a decent looking guy, also tall which women seem to like for sure...over 26 years of being married I must have at least had 10 solid "sure thing" chances. And I assure you - not one was encouraged by me.
So any woman's husband who is a decent looking guy - your man is not just getting hit on...but outright invited to cheat. And you would also be shocked to know that almost all of them know you, or even someone you consider a friend.
I am not even counting of course the "looks" you get at a bar, or maybe some gal who strikes up a convo at the grocery store...or someone flirting a bit at a party...no. I mean outright sober put it all in front of me invitation.
It happens to men more than women. AT least I am willing to bet.

Lol. Look pal, I would say that given the fact that you have apparently "fallen" for this married old lady clown due to her consistently and daily posting about sex and dating, then you are probably quite stupid and desperate and nobody should listen to anything you say. No offense. It's just the honest truth.

 

[ChrisL]

So you think women are fully aware their husbands (or boyfriends) think about doing other women all the time?

In the back of their minds perhaps. But it is of course unhealthy to think about it if it bothers you, since no woman will ever find a normal straight male who doesn't.
Women do it also, just not so much and perhaps not so "tuned in" to every good looking woman they see.
It is really quite fascinating. You take a large crowd of people, say at a basketball game where you can see most of the people on the opposite side of the court. In that crowd let's say there is a really attractive woman. Just about every man on the other side saw her within seconds of her arrival...even if not one of them were looking for women to look at.
Women think we are always "looking". We are not. Not intentionally most of the time. It is just that our brains are so hard-wired to copulate and spread our seed like every male species on the planet - that we truly can't help noticing every attractive female within eyeshot. The trouble begins when the woman tries to personalize it.

Maybe it's more about respect.
Like, it's ok to KNOW it, but if the man says it out loud to the wife/girlfriend, it's like a slap in the face/insult/disrespectful.....

Now, if woman doesn't feel like her man loves her just for her being her and will not cheat or go with other women, why do they let themselves go after they get married?

It's not like divorce is not an option.... or cheating.....

Hmm. That is very interesting coming from you. If you are married, as you say, then you are very disrespectful and a total ***** to your "hubby". If he knew how you were behaving like a gross old whore here, he would probably want to slap YOU. If I was married to a person like you, I would have probably filed for a divorce YEARS ago. I think you are a terrible spouse. Untrustworthy, silly, immature, selfish, lazy, and old and sleazy. You are funny though, I'll give you that, in a clown kind of way.

 

[ChrisL]

It's amazing to me how many retarded men are taken in by this old clown. Geez. This place is a mental institution, for sure. Lol. Oy.

 

[iamwhatiseem]

Rarer then you might think Bonzi.
How many know how easy it is to cheat?
I am a decent looking guy, also tall which women seem to like for sure...over 26 years of being married I must have at least had 10 solid "sure thing" chances. And I assure you - not one was encouraged by me.
So any woman's husband who is a decent looking guy - your man is not just getting hit on...but outright invited to cheat. And you would also be shocked to know that almost all of them know you, or even someone you consider a friend.
I am not even counting of course the "looks" you get at a bar, or maybe some gal who strikes up a convo at the grocery store...or someone flirting a bit at a party...no. I mean outright sober put it all in front of me invitation.
It happens to men more than women. AT least I am willing to bet.

Lol. Look pal, I would say that given the fact that you have apparently "fallen" for this married old lady clown due to her consistently and daily posting about sex and dating, then you are probably quite stupid and desperate and nobody should listen to anything you say. No offense. It's just the honest truth.

??
I haven't fallen for anybody...what in the world have I said, that was not an obvious joke, would posses such a thought?
That day I fall for someone over an internet forum...damn...I would just hang it up right then and there.

 

[Iceweasel]

??
I haven't fallen for anybody...what in the world have I said, that was not an obvious joke, would posses such a thought?
That day I fall for someone over an internet forum...damn...I would just hang it up right then and there.

She's being a drama queen. It's what she does.

 

[ChrisL]

??
I haven't fallen for anybody...what in the world have I said, that was not an obvious joke, would posses such a thought?
That day I fall for someone over an internet forum...damn...I would just hang it up right then and there.

She's being a drama queen. It's what she does.

Is there something about my post that you disagree with? What part?

 

[ChrisL]

Rarer then you might think Bonzi.
How many know how easy it is to cheat?
I am a decent looking guy, also tall which women seem to like for sure...over 26 years of being married I must have at least had 10 solid "sure thing" chances. And I assure you - not one was encouraged by me.
So any woman's husband who is a decent looking guy - your man is not just getting hit on...but outright invited to cheat. And you would also be shocked to know that almost all of them know you, or even someone you consider a friend.
I am not even counting of course the "looks" you get at a bar, or maybe some gal who strikes up a convo at the grocery store...or someone flirting a bit at a party...no. I mean outright sober put it all in front of me invitation.
It happens to men more than women. AT least I am willing to bet.

Lol. Look pal, I would say that given the fact that you have apparently "fallen" for this married old lady clown due to her consistently and daily posting about sex and dating, then you are probably quite stupid and desperate and nobody should listen to anything you say. No offense. It's just the honest truth.

??
I haven't fallen for anybody...what in the world have I said, that was not an obvious joke, would posses such a thought?
That day I fall for someone over an internet forum...damn...I would just hang it up right then and there.

Lol. Okay, I should have said "if" instead of "apparently." IF you have, then you are one stupid dude.

 

[ChrisL]

Anyhow, someone like the OP should not be giving advice to anyone. This poster is a terrible example of "commitment." The poster is a ridiculous clown and not much more.

 

[ChrisL]

Rarer then you might think Bonzi.
How many know how easy it is to cheat?
I am a decent looking guy, also tall which women seem to like for sure...over 26 years of being married I must have at least had 10 solid "sure thing" chances. And I assure you - not one was encouraged by me.
So any woman's husband who is a decent looking guy - your man is not just getting hit on...but outright invited to cheat. And you would also be shocked to know that almost all of them know you, or even someone you consider a friend.
I am not even counting of course the "looks" you get at a bar, or maybe some gal who strikes up a convo at the grocery store...or someone flirting a bit at a party...no. I mean outright sober put it all in front of me invitation.
It happens to men more than women. AT least I am willing to bet.

I think Bonzi should invite her husband to join the forum. I'd like to talk to him about my vagina.