Women have standards, but claim men shouldn't have any

[Moonglow]

Well I'll throw on my suit and get on a stairmaster for you.

.... but you're not blonde!

Strawberry blonde.
My hair used to bleach out during the Summer when I grew it long, but because I cut it regular it looks dark.

Dirty blonde would do.

That's my hair color..

I can see that.

In the photos yes..

 

[Mindful]

.... but you're not blonde!

Strawberry blonde.
My hair used to bleach out during the Summer when I grew it long, but because I cut it regular it looks dark.

Dirty blonde would do.

That's my hair color..

I can see that.

In the photos yes..

I was referring to your backside.

 

[Marion Morrison]

What's the difference between an Alla Akbar beard, and a good-old-boy beard?


I can't tell.

 

[mudwhistle]

I find marriage too restrictive and inhibitive of my creative juices...

I thought you WERE married!?

Yes, but she lives with her mother 45 miles away.....Best marriage I've ever had...My 22 year old girlfriend doesn't mind that I'm married....

Ménage a trois is quite common in Europe.

3 women would be fun.
Naw......I'm too old for that shit.

 

[Moonglow]

Yes, but she lives with her mother 45 miles away.....Best marriage I've ever had...My 22 year old girlfriend doesn't mind that I'm married....

Ménage a trois is quite common in Europe.

May oui, it is here also..

Here? In the boonies?

Oh hell yeah....

Nothing much else to do, I should imagine.

This time of year especially...

 

[mudwhistle]

What's the difference between an Alla Akbar beard, and a good-old-boy beard?


I can't tell.

No mustache and short hair.

It's sort of gay if you think about it.

 

[Bonzi]

I find marriage too restrictive and inhibitive of my creative juices...

I thought you WERE married!?

Yes, but she lives with her mother 45 miles away.....Best marriage I've ever had...My 22 year old girlfriend doesn't mind that I'm married....

Ménage a trois is quite common in Europe.

3 women would be fun.
Naw......I'm too old for that shit.

it's every man's fantasy... can't be helped I suppose....

 

[Moonglow]

I find marriage too restrictive and inhibitive of my creative juices...

I thought you WERE married!?

Yes, but she lives with her mother 45 miles away.....Best marriage I've ever had...My 22 year old girlfriend doesn't mind that I'm married....

Ménage a trois is quite common in Europe.

3 women would be fun.
Naw......I'm too old for that shit.

it's every man's fantasy... can't be helped I suppose....

To pull a train?

 

[Moonglow]

Strawberry blonde.
My hair used to bleach out during the Summer when I grew it long, but because I cut it regular it looks dark.

Dirty blonde would do.

That's my hair color..

I can see that.

In the photos yes..

I was referring to your backside.

You need a photo of my backside, are we going steady now?

 

[Mindful]

You'd have to wine and dine me first.

Although I'm looking at your rear end right now. Didn't you know?

 

[Mindful]

Woman logic:
-I refuse to date short, bald men with no money; I will only go for tall, muscular, rich men
-But if men refuse to date old, fat women with messed up kids from a previous relationship; well then, they are sexist pigs who refuse to see the beauty within

Screw that! I only go for good looking, young women without baggage. No exceptions.

How do you like that?

I think to each his own.
the problem with many women is that they think men are interested in love
too many romance movies and novels. Mom's need to teach their girls what it's all about, the only problem is, many mom's don't know... so I guess the onus is on the Dad's... cause they for damn sure know!

Most men are just interested in sex.
But there are some weirdos like me who are interested in love.
Bring em in with the booty......make em stay with love.

I have to admit I have one weakness.....a dynamite butt is my thing. I always felt that a woman with no ass is mean and not worth the bother with. I don't care how big her tits are. But that's just me.

I think men like to love someone, I just think they are not normally in active pursuit of it. Normally. Not like women. Of course, they don't have a biological clock either.

We all have our "turn ons" ... mine is a tall, dark haired man

Mine is men in suits, going up and down escalators at airports. Preferably thin and blonde.

Well I'll throw on my suit and get on a stairmaster for you.

lol. Don't forget the briefcase.

 

[Bonzi]

gettin' a little hot in here!!!

 

[ChrisL]

I don't care about a guy's hair color, really. I don't know that I have any particular "type" of guy as far as looks are concerned. I mean, as long as he is not hideous or anything of course.

 

[ChrisL]

Of course, I would definitely want to see what the person looked like before I started up anything though (on the online venue - which I don't really like to do anyways - most of the people in my experience are pretty strange).

I mean, sexual attraction IS important. You could be talking with someone that you actually do find hideous. So, yeah, looks do matter to an extent I suppose.

 

[gipper]

Of course, I would definitely want to see what the person looked like before I started up anything though (on the online venue - which I don't really like to do anyways - most of the people in my experience are pretty strange).

I mean, sexual attraction IS important. You could be talking with someone that you actually do find hideous. So, yeah, looks do matter to an extent I suppose.

Oh times have changed...My Sicilian grandmother had an arranged marriage. My grandfather's father arranged the marriage. He knew my grandmother's father and corresponded with him from the USA to Sicily. My grandfather rode the boat back to Sicily, meet my grandmother's father and arranged it. My grandfather and grandmother had never seen each, but were engaged. My grandmother said after first seeing my grandfather, that he was an old man (he was prematurely grey but lots of hair...thanks granddad, I still do too).

They were married almost 50 years, until my grandfather's death.

 

[ChrisL]

Of course, I would definitely want to see what the person looked like before I started up anything though (on the online venue - which I don't really like to do anyways - most of the people in my experience are pretty strange).

I mean, sexual attraction IS important. You could be talking with someone that you actually do find hideous. So, yeah, looks do matter to an extent I suppose.

Oh times have changed...My Sicilian grandmother had an arranged marriage. My grandfather's father arranged the marriage. He knew my grandmother's father and corresponded with him from the USA to Sicily. My grandfather rode the boat back to Sicily, meet my grandmother's father and arranged it. My grandfather and grandmother had never seen each, but were engaged. My grandmother said after first seeing my grandfather, that he was an old man (he was prematurely grey but lots of hair...thanks granddad, I still do too).

They were married almost 50 years, until my grandfather's death.

Times have definitely changed. There is no way I would allow someone else to pick a spouse for me, and there is no way I would marry someone without knowing them WELL first. It is a lifelong commitment and I wouldn't want to be unhappy when I have choices.

 

[Bonzi]

I guess if you were young, maybe, but your parents would have to really know you and have your best interests at heart.

If you grew up in a culture where you really didn't know any better, you probably wouldn't care.

 

[ChrisL]

I guess if you were young, maybe, but your parents would have to really know you and have your best interests at heart.

If you grew up in a culture where you really didn't know any better, you probably wouldn't care.

Not true. Did you know that a lot of fairy tales were based on forced marriages? A lot of the "ogres" who kidnapped princesses and them escaping from them? Women were not ever happy in forced marriages, especially if they knew and loved someone else.

Tales of Faerie: Fairy tales and Arranged Marriages

 

[gipper]

Of course, I would definitely want to see what the person looked like before I started up anything though (on the online venue - which I don't really like to do anyways - most of the people in my experience are pretty strange).

I mean, sexual attraction IS important. You could be talking with someone that you actually do find hideous. So, yeah, looks do matter to an extent I suppose.

Oh times have changed...My Sicilian grandmother had an arranged marriage. My grandfather's father arranged the marriage. He knew my grandmother's father and corresponded with him from the USA to Sicily. My grandfather rode the boat back to Sicily, meet my grandmother's father and arranged it. My grandfather and grandmother had never seen each, but were engaged. My grandmother said after first seeing my grandfather, that he was an old man (he was prematurely grey but lots of hair...thanks granddad, I still do too).

They were married almost 50 years, until my grandfather's death.

Times have definitely changed. There is no way I would allow someone else to pick a spouse for me, and there is no way I would marry someone without knowing them WELL first. It is a lifelong commitment and I wouldn't want to be unhappy when I have choices.

Agreed. However back in those days, many thought young people were incapable of picking the right person for their spouse. Their elders were more capable, supposedly. It worked well for some, but no doubt it failed for others.

 

[Bonzi]

I guess if you were young, maybe, but your parents would have to really know you and have your best interests at heart.

If you grew up in a culture where you really didn't know any better, you probably wouldn't care.

Not true. Did you know that a lot of fairy tales were based on forced marriages? A lot of the "ogres" who kidnapped princesses and them escaping from them? Women were not ever happy in forced marriages, especially if they knew and loved someone else.

Tales of Faerie: Fairy tales and Arranged Marriages

I'm not saying you can't find happiness.
I'm just saying that its very very RARE and not realistic to hope to find someone that you can act like a complete slacker and asshole around and they will love you anyway.

If you love/value a person or relationship, you most likely will clean up your act a bit