Meh. Most Americans are over gay marriage now, especially in my own state.
Only the bible belt that gets all wound up over it, as in the hypocritical bible belt that places brothels near churches - so they can sin and then ask for forgiveness without walking far.
Marriage is the Joining of One Man and One Woman. And this without regard to where you happen to be standing, assuming that you're standing upon earth, of course.
Says you. Our laws say differently. You keep telling yourself that same sex marriage isn't marriage. And gays will continue to gain legal recognition for their marriages.
Looks like we have a perfect win-win scenario here.
Slavery used to be legal too. I suppose, if you were alive then, you would have no problem with it. Right?
Actually, I think this is an interesting question.
We have slavery in modern-day America. We call it migrant workers but its pretty much slavery.
A related question - would "you" have been part of the Underground Railroad? Or how about the resistance during WWII?
What I think is that those who are favor of equality now would have been in favor of it then. And, of course, those who are against equality now would have always been against it.
Needless to say, there's the question of nature vs nurture, how you would likely have been raised in different times of our history but, given the givens, there have always been haters and RWs. At one time, they were called Democrats but now they're Republicans.
The OP is wrong. If the United States is what we say we are, marriage equality is not wrong. You're free to hold a different opinion but that's all it is -
an opinion, and maybe you should move to Russia where they share your fear and hatred.