Perhaps it is all they feel you are worth. I have had no problems with lousy customer service. Most of teh women I have dated have offered good to great customer service. Perhaps the differences in the way we approach women and how we treat them is the difference.
not sure where you dug up that "morality", but as a situational ethic, it may not be very ethical and can be considered, lousy customer service, depending on ideology. did, for example, Jesus the Christ believe in lousy customer service for free?