Men or all ethnic backgrounds must confront the fallacy that women of the same ethnic background are "our" women. Women think for ourselves and our sexuality is our own. No woman of any color is one of "your" women over which you have the right to fight. The first issue to disappear in these arguments is that women are entitled to make their choices for themselves.
It would be appropriate for men of all "races" to let go of the possessive idea that some women are "theirs" without even ******* asking.
One of the sexiest men I have ever seen is an Ashkenazi Jew.
As a woman, I am soooooo tired of this bullshit between you men.
Lys, you women have your own set of problems in this regard. However, it is stupid to think you must limit yourself to one race in dating, sex or marriage,
We don't. This is what I am trying to say. There are so many things that go into a successful relationship, both physical attraction (which men have for many years denied that women have toward men, and I can post pictures of what I would say would be desirable to me physically: we do not understand human sexuality), and personality factors like an easy-going manner and a sense of humor (good grief, man, laugh a little, chuckle at Gahan Wilson cartoons; don't be such a dipshit in the mud). Female people like to laugh, kiss, caress, and jump in the sack, just like I would think that that men do.
What you can do for white guys is to teach them how to move. My white male dance partners seemed to be the stiffest things imaginable. One of the things that I thought was/is great about the Jewish guy I mentioned is that he won some award in acting school for fencing, which teaches guys to be light on their feet and know where their bodies are at all times. In the old movies, Errol Flynn could fence backwards up a flight of stairs. We women have always had to put up with these lumpies.