You are getting mixed up aren't you little guy. You said the UK was number 1 AFTER South Africa. Go back and reread your post. Er, no it is number one before south africa..Now, I'm laughing at you ijit

That aside, where on your link does it say that they are UN stats?? It is a link to nationmaster who btw, doesn't state what year the stats have been collected (although you say it is 2002 - great Dumbfuck! six year old stats really help your argument!! NOT!)
That aside, your links have absolutely NO credibility for several reasons, but I'll just give one. Kidnapping. UK is first, with Iceland coming in last on 2. Wow. No US in there. So out of a nation of 300 million people, according to Loki's great stats, the US had no kidnappings. But wait! Whoops! Look at this:
CNN.com - Anderson Cooper 360° Blog
According to this link alone, 115 kids are kidnapped every year in the States, let alone other folk. Before you say it is a blog, I can find stories in your media until the cows come home on kidnappings in the US.
So what is your explanation for the stats you have supplied, other than the fact nationmaster says it "collects" them from the CIA and other govt agencies? Don't you think the US missing from your kidnapping stats is kinda relevent??
Finally, just because I did a comparative of violence and used guns, doesn't mean i believe that to be the FULL and final argument. This is about polite societies, and as I am showing you, your guns don't tend to make you guys more polite, although using your own statistical source, when it does come to GUN violence (and yes, I am NOW being deliberate), you do come in fourth behind such wonderful first world nations as Thailand, Columbia and South Africa.
NationMaster - Murders with firearms (most recent) by country Bravo!!

Polite indeed...