Which Saying Do You Agree With MORE?

[Jackson]

That would be hard if you became friends first. Once you realize you are falling for that person, it;s hard to back off. Almost impossible.

Some have a devout assumption that marriage is not for them, and keep away from that topic, but once an attraction has occurred the feeling just doesn't go away. But you can always out boundaries on the relationship.

I think if you are married, once you notice an attraction, you can cut off all ties.
It's not impossible, and over time, if you commit to avoiding that person, it will fade.
You disagree?

Oh, I didn't realize there was an infidelity problem in the equation. Certainly, if one is married, you cut off ties completely. I don't disagree.

 

[Bruce_T_Laney]

Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all
- or -
Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart

The first one...

I can get over a broken heart over time but never enjoying the feeling of love is something no human should experience...

 

[Bonzi]

Not always, but certain instances.

I guess I'm questioning the existence of an instant or even "accidental" irresistible love.

Bottom lining it, we're back to the "conscious choice" thing......

 

[Bonzi]

Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all
- or -
Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart

The first one...

I can get over a broken heart over time but never enjoying the feeling of love is something no human should experience...

perhaps these humans (that never have felt love) are the dregs of society we hate.... ?

 

[JakeStarkey]

Accepting that you are in love with the other person

 

[Bruce_T_Laney]

Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all
- or -
Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart

The first one...

I can get over a broken heart over time but never enjoying the feeling of love is something no human should experience...

perhaps these humans (that never have felt love) are the dregs of society we hate.... ?

I can not imagine any human has never felt some form of love, but maybe there is one ore two...

Love can turn someone so bitter that they become a waste in society, but still I would have love and lost than never love at all...

 

[shadow355]

Better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all
- or -
Owner of a lonely heart, much better than an owner of a broken heart

Don't they both coincide? Same thing- same meaning ; both phrases are just worded different.

Shadow 355

 

[shadow355]

I'm still undecided... which is why I am asking...

Do you think love is a "decision"?

Loved and Lost. No, it is not a decision. It is a feeling.

So, you believe in love at first sight? Or, do you think it takes time to develop feelings

Love at first sight .


Shadow 355