you are correct. the country is more divided now than ever in history. Half the country wants a benevalent dictator who will take care of their every need. the other half wants free enterprise and individual responsibility. One half wants huge government that controls every aspect of our lives, and the other half wants small government that leaves us alone to succeed or fail on our own.
No.
If elections are any way to judge what a country wants, 60% want some of what you mentioned above (only in a liberal or conservative's cartoon fantasy land does what you write have any semblence to reality), and 40% who could care less.
I tend to think the 40% is the primary "evil", not the 30 percent who may disagree with me on 5 out of 10 topics. Because when you know where you have disagreement, you have the framework for compromise. I'm all for a woman's reproductive choice but I'm not for abortions when your baby's gender isn't what you prefer--so it's a matter of degrees. Those who are for a person's right to bear arms are likely not wild about the idea of me having an atomic weapon in my briefcase. It's a mater of degrees.
When you have a large block of mentally, spiritually, socially, and above all else societally (sp?) apathetic citizenry, then you have real problems. These apathetic losers are what obstructs the country more than they can ever know. To quote Gene Hackman in the movie Runaway Jury,
You think your average juror is King Solomon? No! He's a roofer with a mortgage. He wants to go home and sit in his Barcalounger and let the cable TV wash over him. And this man doesn't give a single, solitary droplet of shit about truth, justice or your American way.
And guess what, the 90+% of the people you and I keep sending BACK to Washington--that is the incumbency retention rate are dead set on making sure that the roofer with a mortgage has no interruption in his cable TV or his comfort zone.
I tend to think that government at it's best comforts the afflicted and steers toward afflicting the comfortable to some degree. I know you disagree and that's fine. Time has proven me correct more often than not.
What a world would it be if we could get 20 of the 40% who don't give a droplet of shit either way to pick an issue--ANY ISSUE--and develop a passion about it. Get informed, get involved, and get off their ass and inform others.
Too much to ask, I know. But ostracizing those who disagree is the low-hanging fruit of the political spectrum. Convincing others to see your side of the issue is the real prize and, right now, 4 out of 10 don't want to listen.
How sad.