you don’t realize that cops treat you differently than a big black guy...
No, they don't. Because I'm a big ol' cornfed unshaven redneck...6'2" and 230 lbs.
I've been arrested, handcuffed, and jailed... for assault on less.
Nobody had to subdue me. I didn't argue with the police. I didn't resist arrest. I went to jail, got bailed out Monday morning, made an appointment with the prosecuting attorney, explained what happened, the charges were dropped and I went on with my life.
The main reason people are treated differently has nothing to do with race...it has to do with responsibility, and perhaps a little to do with intelligence.
When I was arrested, I understood the police were doing their job. They didn't become involved of their own accord...someone called them. They have a job to do and I let them do it.
Fighting with the police is stupid. It only cements in their mind your guilt. If you weren't guilty of whatever they were called to investigate, you are now absolutely guilty of resisting arrest and/or assault on a peace officer. Why fight or run if you are innocent? Go to court and make your case.
People like you who excuse this criminal behavior exacerbate the problems.
The solution here is obvious. Don't assault the police and no one is going to restrain you pin the ground by force.
When I was young and dumb I was arrested multiple times...and never got my clothes dirty. Amazing isn't it.
You respect the police, most of the time the police respect you.