It's not that men dislike women, they just want them to be a certain way -
There's not always a hidden meaning or ulterior motive in what people do. Sometimes people just "do"....
No, this guy hates women. He has no luck with being intimate with them even though that is what he desires. Somehow learning how to interact with the opposite sex passed him by. Now, in his 30s he has little chance of learning. He has chosen to allow his frustration to fester into anger rather than engage in meaningful self-reflection to try to get at the root of his problem and get past it.
If he really wants a relationship then he needs to be more social, like joining a club or volunteering, anything to put him in a position to socialize with people and, thereby, learn interpersonal skills. However, he would rather sit on his couch and **** away the best years of his life, probably because it is the path of least resistance.