If you read the book, those notifications were handed out by taxi drivers. Hal Moore's wife would follow them around the base and even outside the base. She would go to the women who got the telegrams (with other wives). From what I recall she raised a stink. The army wasn't ready for this kind of casualty count. She got them off bottom deliverying notifications with chaplains and other support folks.
Totally gut wrenching.
Not sure why you find it insulting.
The army pulled many of Moore's experienced leadership at the end. The story of the lost platoon was true. Some in the battle think it may have saved the LZ because it kept the NVA focus elsewhere.
Some of the men who were killed in that battle had weeks left on their enlistments....but they went. I think I would have said no. But they didn't know what they were getting into. One was reported to have told others he know he would not make it. He didn't.
Moore was prepared. His men were trained well. They fought well. The scnene were his own men got napalmed happened. Joey Galloway would say that the indian kid who was burned and later died was his nightmare. He helped move him and the burned flesh came off his heels revealing his bones. He lost men, but not what could have happened.
If you read the book....there is part two. After X-Ray, they marched most of the replacement group under the command of a guy who was there to get his ticked punched to LZ Albany. It was supposed to be a "walk in the sun" (a term for easy). They walked into an ambush. Just prior all the leadership was called up to a meeting and they were hit. Two companies were almost immediately wiped out.
The others regrouped with losses but managed to survive. It was not a good deal I think they lost close to 400 men.
Jack Smith of CBS news (was there as a PFC). He just recently passed away.
He gives an account.
After the battle of LZ X-Ray which was depicted in Hal Moore & Joe Galloway’s book, “We were Soldiers,” the survivors moved toward LZ Albany for withdraw and were ambushed. Ja…
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LZ X-ray and LZ albany were two contrasting situations showing how much leadership in battle means.