Trivial but odd recent event

[Fort Fun Indiana]

Plus it implies that something is offensive or creepy about the friendly customers

Trolling someone by doing what they just asked you not to do is not friendly.

 

[Bootstraps]

If someone has a sign around their neck that says “Don’t look at me…don’t speak to me” do you feel civilization is obligated to obey?

Is that what's going on here?

 

[Bootstraps]

How do you fist bump someone without consent?


Again, I'm only talking about ordinary, expected contact. There is a huge gulf between "keeping your hands to yourself" and overt, unwelcome advances. Inappropriate behavior needs reported to the bar owner. This girl is in the wrong line of work and should just quit before she gets fired.

How? It's on the op. Weather explained how. And she doesn't need to do anything she doesn't want to. And it was reported to the manager. She has every right to work there as the owner or manager sees fit. The person involved with touching her needs to be banned from the bar however.

 

[Bootstraps]

It is however my decision to decline

It's your decision to decline touching her? No one is arguing otherwise.

 

[toobfreak]

How? It's on the op. Weather explained how. And she doesn't need to do anything she doesn't want to. And it was reported to the manager. She has every right to work there as the owner or manager sees fit. The person involved with touching her needs to be banned from the bar however.

There's a great business sense: just keep pissing off and chasing away all of your clientele who don't like your new idiosyncratic, unfriendly bar maid.

 

[Crepitus]

Very few walk around with no knuckle bumping sign pasted on them

She spoke. You know, with words?

BTW, you do realize this "asking for a friend" bullshit isn't fooling anyone, right?

 

[Bootstraps]

There's a great business sense: just keep pissing off and chasing away all of your clientele who don't like your new idiosyncratic, unfriendly bar maid.

You mean chase away people who refuse to keep their hands to themselves? That is great business sense. Now other women can feel safer there without being touched against their will as well. And more women will attract more men.

 

[toobfreak]

You mean chase away people who refuse to keep their hands to themselves?

Bar maids routinely flirt with customers to get bigger tips. Your gal wants to have them arrested.

For the FORTH time, customers going into bars are not expecting this. Some people are very tactile and some guys will lay their hand on yours as they speak to you--- this is not an assault but mere communication.

I'm sure your gal will go over big and last long, heralding in a new era of aloof, litigious, standoffish, distant bar maids.

 

[Bootstraps]

Bar maids routinely flirt with customers to get bigger tips. Your gal wants to have them arrested.

For the FORTH time, customers going into bars are not expecting this. Some people are very tactile and some guys will lay their hand on yours as they speak to you--- this is not an assault but mere communication.

I'm sure your gal will go over big and last long, heralding in a new era of aloof, litigious, standoffish, distant bar maids.

You can say it another four times, it doesn't matter. Keep your hands to yourself. Such a simple concept but one you can't seem to grasp. And when someone explains to you that they don't want you to touch them and you do anyway, that's not communication, that's intentionally disrespecting them. She has every right to tell you no, and you have zero rights to touch her regardless. You are not entitled to any part of her body no matter how minor you see it.

 

[toobfreak]

You can say it another four times, it doesn't matter.

You are obviously a cement-head, obtuse as all get-out.

 

[Bootstraps]

You are obviously a cement-head, obtuse as all get-out.

Yes, because not touching someone against their will makes one ignorant. Your logic needs more logic. Try harder and fail less.

 

[toobfreak]

Yes, because not touching someone against their will makes one ignorant. Your logic needs more logic. Try harder and fail less.

Wow.

 

[g5000]

Three guys and me are at a bar. The lady serving us is gorgeous and one guy goes for a knuckle bump. She withdraws and says she is Muslim and that forbids her touching men. So next time she brings a drink he real fast knuckle bumps her. She goes off and the manager gets involved . Then two middle eastern guys start getting in and manager says we have to leave immediately. We refuse so he calls cops. Cops come and ask where is the assault victim and perps . John confessed he knuckle bumped her and cop goes off on why were they called in for an assault when it was a mere “dap”. There’s some back and forth about Muslim culture and Johns concluding remark, as the cops left and we voluntarily exited also , was spot on “in America when working in a bar the Muslim faith is not a controlling g factor for customers”
I mean I would not have knuckled bumped her but for Christ sakes “when in Rome ” comes into mind.
Thoughts?

You and your friends are serious assholes. You disrespected the woman, incel.

And this doesn't belong in Current Events.

.

 

[g5000]

Odd place to be working if you cannot touch other guys. I mean, working in a bar is a people job. Sounds like her muslim faith is her problem not yours. She was a bad choice to work in a bar and muslim or not, you are in a christian country and people need to assimilate.

Oh, I see. Unwanted touching of females is a Christian thing, is it?

Wow.

Just...wow.

I guess grabbing her ***** would make you a real patriot, RIGHT!?

You dumbasses have become seriously warped by your Dear Leader.

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[OldFlame]

If Muslim, why is she working in a bar, where the main business is alcohol?
BTW, your buddy did not have to be an asshole.

Should Trump tell muslims they can't work in bars?

 

[White 6]

Should Trump tell muslims they can't work in bars?

No. Muslims simply should not be working in bars, as Muslims oppose alcohol on religious grounds. We all know, religion grounds do not stop Trump from any religious or moral transgression, and never have. So, it is unlikely he would influence anybody else to stick to moral, ethical, religious teaching.

 

[LeftofLeft]

Assimilate into our culture or leave.

Americans who don’t assimilate in other countries are called “ugly Americans” - meaning it is expected that Americans adjust to the culture or country.

 

[WEATHER53]

She spoke. You know, with words?

BTW, you do realize this "asking for a friend" bullshit isn't fooling anyone, right?

I wonder if Muslim women can be dental assistants or dentists as touching is required ?

 

[WEATHER53]

Is that what's going on here?

Answer the comparison question

 

[Bootstraps]

Answer the comparison question

Why? Because you say so? Is this event event remotely like the one you're trying to compare it too? Because I'm not seeing any connection. So instead of telling others to bark on command, why don't you tell your friends to keep their hands to themselves instead. And try to use some intellectual honesty the next time you engage me. You got a problem with a person, you use that person's behavior, not assign someone else's to them.