I haven't read this entire thread (too many posts, and I'm too impatient to read every one), so forgive me if I'm repeating anyone else's point or question. As to the point you raised in the quoted section above, do you suppose this regret and damage is because of something inherent in those values that confers happiness, health and contentment, or might it be that much of the damage and strife is the result of social pressures that arise from living an alternate lifestyle in a society that embraces these traditional values? In other words, if someone who suffered all this regret and damage from living outside our core traditional values engaged in their particular lifestyle in a society where that lifestyle was the norm, would they suffer the same regrets, harm or damage?