Again, I did not ask for anyone to get upset--merely to stand by their own position of what is right or wrong. Recently (in another thread) I brought up Milgram's Experiments where it is shown that 65% of us will do what we believe to be wrong if that wrong has been authorized by authorities.
Our government overlords told us divorce was okay and people rushed to divorce courts. Our government overlords told us abortion was a right, and we rushed to abort. This can be shown over and over again. Milgram's experiment had a person of authority telling people it was okay to increase pain levels to the lethal level, and 65% of those in the study did just that.
We have to insist to our government (both elected officials and bureaucracies) that we are the overlords, and that can't happen if we all just quietly step back and let everyone do as they please, having no expectations.
Elected officials will do anything to get power and to stay in power. And--as they learned from Milgram's experiments--the majority will fall in line behind authority figures who tell them it is all right to do wrong. That's why the wrong people get elected. Humans have this baser inclination to do wrong. We need our ideals and people who stand up for them. Upstanders, not bystanders.
I voted for President Trump knowing his personal history. He was the only one who showed any interest at all at tilting at all the bureaucratic windmills to get rid of bureaucratic rules, regulations, and mandates. He did fine with that, and I would vote for him again to do it again. However, he would not be my choice for husband of the year, or even Christian of the year. But then, we are not asked to vote on those. Maybe we should.