Mr. Friscus
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You can wonder that, I'm talking about is true through the data.Why would any 20 something get married before they had alot of money saved? That's utter stupidity. It's not the American way for a couple with no money to forge ahead. Have 100 grand tucked away? All is better.
1. We should want happy women.
2. Marriage and children generally makes women happy, so we should encourage that.
3. It's easier for women to get married in their 20's because successful, established, attractive men whom they desire will desire them.
4. It becomes more difficult for women to get married in their 30's because generally the men they desire don't desire them back for multiple reasons; declined looks, less time for a family, increased disagreeableness/independence complex, emotional baggage, etc.
I'm advocating for more women to be happy. You're advocating they take a path that produces less happiness. Why? Of course women can do what they want, there's exceptions to every general trend.. They can smoke cigarettes if they want, but should we encourage them (or anyone) to do it? No.
Men and women are very different in what brings them happiness. If you're treating them as the same, you'll be way off on your prescriptions.