Originally posted by Moi
With the exception of Mr. Gates, I don't think there is a groundswell of people who do anything for charitable causes that actually impacts their lives.
Gates may be the largest charitable donor in the U.S., but there is certainly no shortage of others who give as large a percentage of their fortunes to charity as he does.
And that what I'm talking about, voting for people who are sending our money elsewhere (whilst they don't replenish the coffers out of their own pocket) and not lifting a finger for the supposed greater good. It's not helping others...it's assuaging their guilt and getting a tax deduction.
I don't personally know anyone as selfish as you make "them" out to be, so I can't answer for them. It seems likely to me that most people who give at least
believe they're making a difference, whether they actually are or not. Otherwise, they would adopt your attitude that their charity is futile and not do it.
I don't think it makes anyone more human. Nor do I believe that we'd be miserable excuses for human beings if we decided to use our money on causes which would actually have an impact rather than those that are futile.
I think that giving even one human being a brief respite from suffering or a moment of hope makes an impact. Maybe not an earth-shattering impact, but I wouldn't call it futile either.
We've spent all this money helping others...are we more respected? Do we receive in kind? Have we actually made anything any better? I don't think so.
If our motive for giving was to get respect or be repaid in kind, we would be no better than those you mentioned who give in order to assuage their guilt or get a tax deduction.
Moreover, I've personally known plenty of able-bodied Americans, including members of my own family, who believe the world owes them a comfortable living and who show far less gratitude for the help given them than many of the foreign recipients of charity that you categorically denounce as ungrateful. Some people simply won't allow themselves to be helped by making something of the opportunities given them, but instead view generous people as pushovers or meal tickets. If you give them a dollar, they pester you for twenty. I think that may have a lot to do with why rich people don't invite street people into their homes on a cold night. Putting up with ingratitude or being hustled under one's own roof is more insult than most people can bear. In other words, it's better for the down-and-out that the wealthy
don't bump elbows with them on a daily basis. Doing so might actually make them
less inclined to help.