Dang! I took a couple of hours off to go fishing, and the same gays are logged in blowing the same smoke. None of you commenting on this issue in support of gays have a frame of reference with which to form an opinion. You haven't served in the military, or even talked to a soldier. You folks hold soldiers in contempt, and you don't like them.
So let me tell you what you've accomplished. Nothing. No matter how much demented smoke you blow things will remain the same. You folks are still gay, and sexual deviants still shouldn't be allowed to serve in the military. Sorry gang that is just the way things are.
Well you keep ignoring my simple question. But I can assure you that I come from a big military family, both of my grandfathers-one was in the battle of the bulge (army), the other fought in WW2, Korea, and Vietnam-and is currently interred at Arlington (air force)-actually two of my relatives are interred there. My father was in the air force. My uncle was in the navy. My cousin is over in Afghanistan right now. You bet your ass I would have joined the military, I tried but was unable to due to having a bad leg from a bad car accident in my teenage years. Now I may not know from personal experience-you wont see me pretending that here. I have too much respect for people who have served to pretend to have been one (although I certainly would if I could). But I have talked to the many people I know about gays serving in the military-and not one of them said they wouldn't care. I can form an informed decision based upon that.
Once again thank you for your service-regardless of your personal views. However don't make the mistake in thinking your family's experience/views of the military is the only one.
And for the record-I'm straight.
Good morning James. From your post you and I have a lot in common. My father was career Air Force. He served with the Army during WW2 then transitioned to the Air Force. My Uncles served in the Navy duing WW2. My boys have served in OEF/ OIF. Multiple tours with the 101st ABN/ Air Assault, the 278th RCT, and 82nd Air Borne. I served with 1/73rd Arty 1st AD, 1/27th Inf. and 1/38th Inf. 2nd. Inf. Div, and 1/22nd Arty 4th AD. My families military history goes back to the revulutionary war.
James I can spot a smoke blower a mile away. You aren't on of those people, and I can sense the sincerity in your reply. I will respond to you in kind.
I can understand your desire to serve. Service to ones country is a privilage. Sometimes medical conditions prevent your service. This happened with my youngest son when he attempted to enlist. He was turned back after his physical at MEPS. For those of you who haven't served MEPS stands for Military Entrance Processing Station.
Since military service can place you in potentially life threating, very harsh environments physical ability is a rigidly enforced requirement. James, I can spot a smoke blower a mile away. You aren't on of those people, and I can sense the sincerity in your reply. I will respond to you in kind.
This thread has proven that gays serving in the military is a hot button issue. Most of the replys to this thread have been from the same group of people who support the abolishment of DADT. Others voice their frustration with this topic, and then move on.
While the troops can't comment many of them follow this thread. I've sent my sons the URL to this discussion. They consider some of the replies here comical. Others really tick them off. Unfortunately they've been ordered to silence. You'll never here their opinions posted here. You know how tha goes.
"Go forth and die as instructed youngman. Remember keep your mouth shut. You're opinions and feelings arn't considered important here."
On this subject we are going to have to agree to disagree James. My opinions were formed from a life time association with the U.S. Military. Unlike you I've never talked to any service member reqardless of component who agrees that gays serving openly in the military is a good idea. The feelings expressed to me are 100% in opposition to gays serving openly in the military. I agree with my brothers, and sisters in arms.
I'm sorry that I missed your questions. sometimes replies come so fast it is difficult to respond to everyone. Let me correct that situation now.
James in Florida, asks the following questions:
1. Once again: what would you say to somebody you served with who came out of the closet tomorrow? (hypothetically speaking of course).
A: Should that happen today neither one of us would be serving in the military. As a civilian we are entiltled to live our lives as we choose. Our lifestyles don't impact the military in any measureable degree.
2. And the military can't ask every single person in the military what their thoughts or feelings are-there's way too many. And this is about all issues-not just DADT.
A: All of that is true.
3. And if you don't want a job where you do what you're told to, and your feelings aren't taken into consideration, the solution is simple: don't join the military.
A: That is also true.
4. Lastly-to think that your son(s), or yourself speak on behalf of the entire military, is one of the most arrogant things I've ever heard of.
A: If the case could be made that I or my sons are speaking for the entire military I would agree that these opinions would be extremely presumptious, and arrogant. What I've said here is my opinion, based on my lives experiance. I've also included the opinions of those military people that I know. I'm still waiting to talk face to face with military person who disagrees with me.
5. And thank you for your service.
A: Thank you for the kind words James. They are appreciated. I wish you the best. Live long and prosper.