I agree that they aren't normal, but I don't see that as a valid reason to disallow them. As for stopping the population of the world, here's how I think your argument fails. Homosexuals aren't likely to have children anyways. Denying them the right to marry another homosexual isn't going to result in many of them switching teams and entering into a "REAL" marriage and having children. And to add a kick to an already dead horse, the 95% of the world's population that isn't homosexual seems to be doing a fine job of increasing our numbers without the assistance of homosexuals.
Not the 95% in Europe. Their population numbers, other than immigration, is dwindling.
You have it backwards. They are not "disallowed". It is somewhat semantics, but the homosexual lobby is trying to frame the issue as something they are being denied, and hence make the issue appear to be about civil rights, which it isnt.
The issue is about a privledge. Marriage is for the purpose of benefitting the society as a whole. The society as a whole has to pay for those who marry and create families, so the society as a whole should benefit from it. The benefit, which is why marriage has been instituted in societies, is two fold. Encouraging family creation, and giving children a more likely chance of growing up in a stable and healthy enviorment.
If marriage didnt help keep families together, there would be NO NEED for it whatsoever. Having a family is expensive and difficult. Many married couples would not have married if they did not receive some sort of benefit, other than the "natural" benefits bestowed by nature. And many wouldnt have lasted as long. Married couples with children should be given financial and other benefits by society, for it is their work in raising the kids that benefits the society. There is no benefit to society for same sex marriages.
There is simply no reason in the world that two men should get tax breaks the same as a married couple, and single men cant get those same tax breaks.
In fact, the IRS and the feds should create more tax benefits for married couples with kids.
Also, same sex marriages would be detrimental to many kids, as the family court system is already overburdened which often does not allow judges the time and resources to make good decisions that have effects on kids. Same sex marriages would create even more of a burden on an already overexhausted court, and cause many more poor decisions due to the increased burdens placed upon the family courts, which would hurt, and sometimes even lead to the death of kids.
Merely claiming it is denying them rights or fair or equal treatment is not sufficient enough. The supporters have to come up with some very strong arguements and points on how society as a whole will benefit if same sex marriages were allowed. So far I havent heard any that are even remotely close.
I am not homophobic, and I did not have sexual relations with that woman.