IMHO, the lefties cannot (or will not) define themselves. They will resort to insults if you ask them to explain where they stand, or if they stand for anything at all. They will tell you all day long about anything and everything they disagree with or can see a need for improvement. That can be helpful if everything is going well and you have resources for "investment". When you are concerned about food & shelter (that means individual property rights, including being able to defend said property), that kind of criticism/suggestion can get old, and it distracts from the goals of security.
The lefties use social ills to gain power. They will tell you that giving up resources (for the good of _____); it is really them stealing power. Often they will divide the population into "groups" and "pit" them against each other to vote each others' rights away. Example: "the filthy rich" that make over $250,000 a year, are pitted against those that do not. The implication: they are taking money that should be yours. In reality, they might be running a small business that has costs that eat into that income, risks and worries that, those that do not make that much, simply don't want to deal with. It is a great responsibility, they may have several employees that they pay and try to give benefits (to keep the good employees).
Lefties will claim a "group" does not have equal rights when they are looking to give "additional" rights (take rights from all those that do not belong to that group). Lefties will claim their "intellect" is superior to those that are concerned about physical problems, without ever mentioning wisdom.
Lefties will use selective facts to try to discredit beliefs they disagree with, but will provide no evidence/facts that what they "propose" actually works (or has ever worked).
If you want to have a discussion about a leftie's beliefs, you will be called names, responded to in a condescending manner, and your questions will never be answered.
Conservatives believe that each individual should have rights, and those rights should be protected equally by the law. Conservatives believe that each person is responsible for their own action (their are exceptions for age and illness). Conservatives believe that their chose charity, not the govenment should decide who is helped. Conservatives believe in upholding the laws (traffic laws are some times stretched, a little), and that every person in the country should be held to the same standards (if some one broke the law to get here, they are choosing to select the laws they want to follow, and I would like that privelage too, I wouldn't pay taxes if I could choose with law I didn't want to follow). Our country is extremely special and our borders should be secure. If you want to come to this country for "freedom", do not come here and try to change it to "your group's" advantage. We have learned (most of us the hard way) that the tradditional ways: work hard, improve yourself, save and invest are the ONLY way to become content and successful. The lefties will tell us we are wrong, but to date, they have not given testimony/witness that anything else works.
You get to pick what you want to be. Have fun.