My worst memory is of the morning my father died. But he died the death most of us would wish for ourselves. He died three hours after suffering from a massive cerebral hemorrhage. He died peacefully with his family surrounding his hospital bed. He had no tubes or IVs attached.
My best memory was graduation day at The Ohio State University. It took me an extra year because my freshman year was dedicated to beer and foosball and intramural sports and college chicks. that's a lot to put on your plate and still get studying in.
To quote Frank Sinatra, Regrets? I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention. So there are memories to savor for their stupidity and their wisdom.
I'd like to be remembered as a guy who always gave someone the benefit of the doubt. I'd like to be remembered as the anti W.C. Fields and always gave the sucker an even break. It's up to me, but then it's really up to those who survive me, to remember me as kind, gentle and forgiving.