I'll get on my soapbox again regarding consensus over compromise. Consensus means that we focus on what we agree on, the values we share and ideas that we can all accept. For example, a wide majority of us believe that murder should be illegal - so let's keep that. Maybe even ramp up the punishment for it if we it's a pressing problem. But we don't have that kind of agreement on abortion - so we'll shelve that for now. People see it differently, and passionately, so it's counter-productive to force the issue with Federal law.
Likewise, most of us don't want poor people to go without healthcare. Healthcare is clearly more expensive than it needs to be, but we can't agree on how to solve that problem. So we'll defer the 'final solution' until we find something we can agree on. And in the meantime beef up the existing social safety nets to help those in need.
I could go on, but hopefully the idea is clear. The partisan division we're burdened with has us thrashing back and forth between extremes. Depending on which side is able to pull together a slim majority at election time, each foists its agenda on the country, even though half of us (or something close to it) might bitter oppose that agenda. It's destructive and doesn't reflect the will of the people, merely the will of the majority. Again - different concepts.
There are many ways would could fix this, but we do need to find consensus on the matter. We won't solve anything by forcing it.
We need leaders who recognize that we're stronger together, and understand that we can't find that unity by passing laws that are so contentious. The culture warriors, on both sides, need to take a back seat and stop trying to force their will on everyone else.