I was waiting for this comment and I'm honestly surprised it took 25 posts to it. This is exactly the problem. When a female student is found out to be having sex with a male teacher he's questionably a predator and society wants the harshest punishment thrown at him. Reverse the genders and you have grown men making wisecracks about how lucky the kid is. This is why there's a double standard when these cases arise and the women generally get far less punishment than the men. People simply don't view the young male as a victim.