Well...I'm as conservative a fellow as you are likely to find and while I agree whole heartily with the premise of your rant Bucs, I think a lot of the controversy you have sparked is in what you left out of the rant.
Here's the thing, when I went in for an interview for the last major company I worked for several years ago, an international that about everyone would recognize, I was asked by the loud mouth, pot belly pig that was operations manager for that facility how I felt about overtime. My response, "If I've gotta work overtime to make a living...I need to find a better job!"
It was, to say the least, taken back a bit and it pretty much ended the interview. But I'd already been hired by the president and owner of the company, so it didn't matter. I spent 15 years working for that company. The pot belly pig lasted another 1 1/2 years trying to bully people before he was fired for non performance.
I told the man EXACTLY how I felt about it...and STILL DO!
Now the truth of the situation was, I worked quit a bit of overtime over those years. Not a lot, but quit a bit. I worked a few weekends as well, but probably not more than 1 or 2 a year.
Why did I if that was the way I felt about it? Because it needed to be done to get the job done. AND because the owner who actually contacted and hired me on my reputation told me that there might be times when overtime and an occasional weekend might be necessary, but that he would try to keep that to a minimum...and he DID!
This owner, a VERY thoughtful fellow, told me in our discussions that he viewed having to work his employees a lot of overtime and weekends as a failure of planning on his part. He allowed that if not acted upon by unforeseeable and/or outside forces....his company worked best when his employees received competitive pay and ONLY worked overtime when they WANTED to. And that is what usually happened. Given the success of his company...I'd say he was dead on.
In most every company, there is a small group of people who just want to work all the overtime they can for one reason or the other. As managers, we found ways to let those who needed or wanted extra money to work overtime when we could. As a matter of fact, that was built into the owner's business model. As I said, VERY thoughtful fellow.
So the point is, I and most the people I know don't LIKE overtime, but don't mind overtime when it's necessary. What we DO mind is overtime and weekends as a matter of course....a condition for employment instead of an exception made for mutual success. After all, what good is the money if you don't have time to enjoy it?
That attitude does NOT make me lazy or a bad employee. Heck, I missed 3 days of work in 15 years due to illness and 2 for family funerals, NEVER showed up late and only refused to work a weekend once and that was for a funeral. But it wasn't hard since I wasn't asked that often. ;~)
Employers who think that they should be able to expect the same level of dedication to their dream from their employees as they themselves have are deluding themselves. They will go through an endless string of unsatisfactory (in their eyes) relationships with their workers and stay in a constant state of internal turmoil. NEITHER of which are good for the business model, the people involved OR the bottom line!
I don't think that you as an employer are saying in your post that you expect employees to work overtime on a weekly bases and 2, 3 or every weekend. THAT would be a problem for almost everyone. It is NOT a good work environment for anyone, occupier or otherwise and I don't think that is what you were saying or believe.
Even leaving that part out, you're point is valid that there IS a serious lack of understanding about what makes the world go round. There is a work ethic that is not being imparted to too many or our youth or is being subverted by our government run educational system that is leading to generations of useful idiots who believe they are OWED something by society. They don't believe that they are not owed anything until they do SOMEthing.
We have to fix that!
Now...my addition to your rant is done. ;~)
By the way, since I started my own business, I've spent MANY 14-16 and even a few 18-20 hour days and gone for months at a time without a single day off. But I would NOT do that for you! LOL