I am with koshergirl, the obvious answer is to cut their aid.
Suffering encourages people to get married
What has happened to you???
Are you actually clueless...or is this simply a political post with no basis in reality.
Fact: withdraw the self respect garnered via working, and family life suffers, and marriages break apart...your post to the contrary notwithstanding.
Again: the good intentions of Leftist welfare schemes have the opposite result than intended.
Proof?
Sure.
The government conducted a study, 1971-1978 known as the
Seattle-Denver Income Maintenance Experiment, or SIME-DIME, in which low income families were give a guaranteed income, a welfare package with everything liberal policy makers could hope for. Result:
for every dollar of extra welfare given, low income recipients reduced their labor by 80 cents.
http://www.policyarchive.org/handle/10207/bitstreams/12794.pdf
a. Further results: dissolution of families: “
This conclusion was unambiguously unfavorable to advocates of a negative income tax that would cover married couples, for two important reasons.
First, increased
marital breakups among the poor would increase the numbers on
welfare and the amount of transfer payments, principally because the
separated wife and children would receive higher transfer payments.
Second, marital dissolutions and the usual accompanying absence of
fathers from households with children are generally considered unfavorable outcomes regardless of whether or not the welfare rolls increase.”
http://www.bos.frb.org/economic/conf/conf30/conf30c.pdf
b. “When families received guaranteed income at 90% of the poverty level, there was a 43% increase in black family dissolution and a 63% increase in white family dissolution. At 125% of the poverty levels, dissolutions were 75% and 40%.”
Robert B. Carleson, “Government Is The Problem,” p. 57.
Folks on the Left, like yourself, no matter your intentions, have become the problem, not the solution.