The problem with your last claim is that the federal government hands out so much others can benefit as well. I know supervisors in industry. They tell me their food stamp people not only refuse to work more hours when asked, but get together when their new cards are out to determine which ones they keep and which ones they sell. Four people in one household can live off of two cards, so they sell the other two on the street.
When illegal immigrant children get such benefits, it's usually enough to also provide for at least one parent. It's setup that way on purpose.
Years ago when our technology is not what it is today, food stamp people had to stand in line twice, or separate their items on the belt. One set of course was paid by food stamps and the other cash items not covered by SNAP's. Today they put everything on the belt and the register separates food stamp from cash only items. First they swipe the card for their first bill and then whip out cash for their other non-essential items. People who do that should be reported to SNAP's office so they can reduce benefits based on what and how much they are paying in cash. Nobody on SNAP's should be able to own a vehicle less than three years old. I've followed some of these people to their vehicles and they stuff their items in a $35,000 or more SUV, this of course after they leave the head cashier where they purchase a bunch of lottery tickets.
HUD should not be providing housing in suburban areas. First of all they bring their crime with them, secondly is that taxpayers should not be providing suburban housing to so-called poor people. If we have to support them, we should support them in the lower rent areas of a city instead of middle-class. Of course, middle-class areas are more expensive and taxpayers who may be working and living in lower class areas are paying the bill. If government is providing such quality living, what's the point of trying to live a suburban life yourself? Government is giving you such a lifestyle there's no sense in trying to better yourself.