Premarital sex and adultery ARE the norm!
Not Christian-like, but, the norm.
.... I am late in the conversation... who are "your people"?
Genuine love? Good luck with that..........
No, they are not yet the norm, dude. That is just your jack off fantasies, and here, let me help you with some others you probably suffer from.
Most women d not like to he cum in the mouth, face and eyes, unlike your porn videos probably make you think, and no, most of them do not like being shagged up the ass either and then give your cock a BJ.
It is also not normal for a woman to be willing to join you in a gang bang on the first date and she probably doesn't care to **** you and your buddies in your parent's basement.
Hope that helps, now go piss off, idiot.