You implied it was made up when you compared it to religion and you continue to be confused by the way it which identity is subjective.
I never said religion was made up either so that one doesnāt wash.
It's the tenents of religion that are made up, the belief in it could absolutely be genuine.
Maybe, maybe not. But weāre talking about the things each side claims they
feel.
It is an objective fact that we are individuals with independent thoughts and feelings.
Exactly. If you know this then I donāt understand your refusal to acknowledge the possibility that beliefs, motives, reasons, etc. may be different from trans person to trans person.
This is identity. That people have an identity is an objective fact. Its subjective in that our identities are individual, but its an objective fact that we each have our own thoughts and feelings that make up our own unique identities.
Right. Itās also an objective fact that everyone is biologically male or female.
Objectively people feel what they feel even if those feelings are influenced by things that aren't real like religion. You can't turn your feelings off anymore than you can switch your eyesight to infrared. Trans people genuinely feel how they feel and when bigots talk about biology and sex characteristics being more important than how people feel then they are ignoring the biology of the brain and identity.
Nope. Iāve already acknowledged that these people genuinely feel transgender.
You keep arguing against things I never said.
That just sounds like an excuse for bigotry.
To most wokists like you, every dissenting opinion does.
For people like you, fighting the cause for transgenders is an end unto itself. It is clear to a lot of people that most are just virtue signalling to feel morally superior, which is what youāve been doing since we started this romp.
Its not a religious belief. It's not synonymous with people across different cultures and societies adopting a belief in christianity. It's biology which makes it a lot more like sexuality. People are born that way.
Perhaps. But some would say that people of faith are born that way.
Only if we're talking about gender the social construct and not transgenderism the biological incongruity between the brain and biological sex.
So then, it iS subjective just as I said.
Your sense of self is influenced by your brain not your gentitals.
And what is the brain influenced by?
You could lose your genitals like you could lose your foot or an eye and you'd still be you. You might be an angrier or sadder you but still you. It's brain damage and brain disorders that can competely change personality.
Genitals are a manifestation of your genetic and hormonal makeup. Which means sex is still male or female even if you lose them.
Who said they aren't sure of who they are? You are confusing gender non conformists with the transgendered.
If either or both identify as other than their biological sex then whatās the difference?
The transgendered know the difference between male bodies and female bodies and feel that they were born in the wrong one. That has to do with biology. Socially, they might also be gender non conformist but that doesn't have anything to do with biology.
You just said Iām confusing transgenderism with gender nonconformism and that transgenders know or feel what gender they are. Now youāre telling me one person can be both.
I'm fine with that statement. That speaks to ability as I previously said. There is nothing of intent or purpose.
Thereās no purpose to procreation and propagation of the species?
Your previous attempt to argue intent and purpose was to excuse trans bigotry.
Your moral posturing is getting stale and tiresome.
I likened people who refused to accept trans people for who they were as bigots attacking people for being born left handed and you argued that that was nonsense because people aren't supposed to be right or left handed but they are supposed to be male or female.
Wrong. I never said people were supposed to be male or female. I said everyone is one or the other.
You continue to conflate the things I say and it is disingenuous and dishonest.
Now we finally both acknowledge this as being a scientifically ignorant statement. We aren't suppose to be anything. We simply are who we are because of biology and nature. Mutation and random chance play their role and what we get is a range of possibilities for biological human constructs. People can be born right handed, left handed, gay, straight, bi sexual, asexual, intersexed, female, infertile, trans.... none of these are biologically inconsistent with human physiology and they certainly don't excuse hate or bigotry.
Have I displayed any hate here towards transgenders?
Bigots asks questions they never intend to answer themselves and if they do they certainly never provide any supporting evidence for the answers they give.
I ask questions that I know you canāt answer. I do this to make a point: You donāt understand it any better than I do.
Like I said before, you act as if we have transgenderism figured out but we donāt. We do not yet fully understand why some biological males feel female or vice versa.
You keep throwing around the word ābiologicalā but this does not explain the disconnect between objective biology and abstract thought and feelings in some people.
No. Puberty blockers and hormone treatments aren't mood enhancers. One blocks the effects of puberty and the other administers sex hormone (testosterone or estrogen) to encourage physiological development more in line with the gender they identify with.
So they can be happier.
If they were not unhappy or did not feel incomplete with their biological sex then they wouldnāt feel the need to change it.
I require evidence when you make the claim that some are just doing it for attention or because of depression. Those also just sound like excuses for bigotry.
As I said, every dissenting opinion to you sounds like bigotry. Thatās because youāre virtue signalling more than you are actually discussing the topic.
You are a two dimensional thinker who has constructed his own subjective paradigm where every debate of this type is: Agrees with me = woke/ Disagrees with me = bigot.
Iāve already said multiple times that I have no moral convictions one way or the other about transgenders, that they donāt frighten me and that I would treat them with the same respect I would anyone else.
In spite of all this and in spite of telling me yourself that every person is different, it still never occurred to you that I might just be debating from an intellectual, philosophical or scientific standpoint.
You are just as narrow minded as you think I am.
Skepticism is what I typically associate with atheism which is why I find it strange that you seem confused about my skepticism of your claims.
So itās not enough for you that I am skeptical of
your claims? Did that not occur to you either?
May this and may that is incredibly wishy washy and not a convincing reason for me to believe anything. How about you try constructing an argument supported by evidence.
After having just told me that everyone is different, you still canāt acknowledge that transgenders might be different from one another?
Jesus, what a hypocrite.
Which would prove what exactly?
That not all transgenders necessarily think alike. You didnāt get that?
I provided MRI scans from studies that show, objectively, that the brains of the trans people in those studies were shifted away from what we would normally see in the brains of the sex they were assigned
The MRI scans objectively show differences in thought processes. Anything beyond that is pure speculation. We still donāt know why some feel or behave differently from their biological sex.
As I said, you behave as if these MRI scans are the final word on transgenderism but they are most definitely not.
We still donāt fully understand how the brain works or why it works the way it does in other areas and any expert in the field will tell you this.
to at birth and towards the brains of the sex they identify with. I don't know anything about any Whole Story. This is more argumentative fallacy nonsense. A red herring. Under what premise was I obligated to provide you the whole story, whatever that is?
When did I say you were?
I said that you behaved like the MRI scans told the whole story. I didnāt say you were obligated to tell the whole story because I know goddamn well there isnāt one yet and you probably wouldnāt know it or would ignore it if there was.
I provided evidence of trans brains being different than the brains of cis gendered people. Do you have anything to say on the findings of that study
Iāve already made my views on the MRI scans known more than once.
or are you content to rest your argument on the faulty logic that it doesn't tell the whole story
Are you claiming it does?
(which you haven't even defined) and therefore we can ignore the story it did tell?
How can I define that which even science doesnāt know?
That is your opinion and is entirely subjective.
Are you saying that screaming, swearing and throwing shit around is a reasoned, mature response to someone unintentionally using the wrong pronoun?
Its your opinion that they over reacted,
Screaming and cussing and throwing shit is overreacting. My view will never change on that.
its not a biological fact that they didn't suffer from what they perceived as hateful or bigoted comments.
I told you already in my last post it was unintentional. In other words, not hateful or bigoted.
You haven't even defined what suffering is in this context. If their feelings are hurt does that not count as suffering?
It never occurred to you to wonder why the guy in the video āsufferedā so much over something so small and unintentional?
How peoples comments trigger emotional responses in your body however is not. If someone's comments make you angry or hurt your feelings you can decide to respond in kind or you can let it roll off your back but you can't turn off the mechanism that causes you to feel a type of way to those words any more than you can turn your ear on and off so you don't have to listen to them.
Actually, you can.
There is no āmechanismā in our brains that triggers responses that we then choose to act or not act on. This implies that others have some control (however limited) to manipulate our own biological responses. They do not.
As I said before, reactions (and being triggered) are always a choice. Always.
You can choose to be triggered or you can choose to accept the reality that the other person is either ignorant, misinformed, unaware, has his/her own insecurites or is just being an asshole to be an asshole.
And your ignorance and bigotry get no sympathy from me.
Why would one need sympathy as a bigot?
Educate yourself before you come here and spout scientifically ignorant claims like an over confident Bingo.
Do you seriously think one comparitive MRI test makes you educated on the subject of transgenders?
Intimacy isn't just about sex. Kids have crushes in school. They deal with attraction and rejection. They hold hands, they kiss, they experiment because these are natural human developments. Someone should be making sure we prepare them for these inevitabilities.
Yes, parents.
Give me an example of a way its being taught that you disagree with.
I never claimed it was being taught in a way I disagree with.
Something other than an ancedote since we don't really know the accuracy or context of those comments.
You dumbass. There IS no context where the female reproductive system is more advanced than the maleās.
Jesus Christ, youāre just arguing to argue at this point.
It's impossible not to inject our biases into things,
Well, you are certainly the poster child for injecting bias but the fact is, it is not impossible not to.
we're only human after all. As adults we should be willing to discuss what biases we think are inappropriate or counter productive and why.
With other adults. Keep your biases away from my kid.
I get that bigots are afraid of these things like segregationists of last century were afraid of racial mixing but are their concerns valid or are they simply bigoted?
Would you acknowledge they were valid even if they were? I sincerely doubt that.
You have already made up your mind that any concerns or opinions expressed by conservatives on such matters is rooted in bigotry. Donāt insult my intelligence with fake magnanimity and nobility and pretend this isnāt so.
Divisive doesn't mean much to me. Should it matter that racist bigots find it divisive to suggest that black and white kids go to school together?
Should it matter that idiots like you pretend you know everything about transgenderism when you donāt?
It is societies job to put bigots in their place. At least in the society I want to live in.
No, itās not. Society doesnāt have a ājobā.
If that were true then people would be paying them to do it.
Paying who?
Should I expect parents to be as good at other professions they weren't trained or educated in just because they're parents? Is that the logic we're (I mean you, sarcastically) going with?
Should I expect teachers to teach children that a single comparative MRI test somehow means that biological males should be allowed in the girlsā bathroom?
Is that the premise of woke? To be universally accepting? I don't think it is. As I said it started in the black community as a word to describe the awakening to white supremacist idealogy and its insideous influence on our culture, society and laws.
As I said, I know the wordās origin. A lot of conservatives just think itās a lame and cheesy term so itās become a term of ridicule for any liberal/progressive person, idea or action that seems illogical, stupid, extreme or hypocritical
And who's being marginalized and how?
So no oneās being marginalized? If not, will people be marginalized in the future? If not then why did you say people like me would be marginalized? If so then why are you asking whoās being marginalized?
You mean individuals get to have their own individual ideas of what is or isn't racist? Oh no!
Not what I said moron.
No that's just lying.
Of course itās lying. Thatās what makes it hypocritical.
Not the point dummy. She was nominated because sheās a black woman and she knows she was. Yet she canāt define her own identity?
That's not a violation of their free speech.
From a legal and Constitutional standpoint, no. But it
is unethical and chickenshit.
I donāt know how long youāve been in this country but in the America I grew up in, the kind of shit we see on college campuses today - the shouting down of speakers, disrupting events and assaulting people - was unheard of and would have been condemned by Republicans and Democrats both.
To think this shit started at the school that championed free speech in the sixties.
Only one group of people vilifies one and not the other. They would be the Founder idolaters.
What?
Where have I made excuses for African slavers? Or asian slavers? Or Spanish slavers?
Didnāt say you did.
I can say right now without any problem whatsoever that I think all slavers, past and present, future, were, are and will be human pieces of shit, in my opinion.
Fine, but youāre not the only one with an opinion on the matter. Others ignore it or outright deny it.
Iām the bigot, remember? So you tell me what I think.
I can't help that you appear too stupid to grasp the nuanced distinctions.
Your ānuancesā contradict each other.
Its called honesty. My insults aren't arguments and I wouldn't want them to be mistaken for them.
Theyāre not relevant to the debate. I thought that was what you were concerned with.
From my perspective you're insulting people because they were born left handed and I'm insulting you because you are choosing to be a bigot.
Irrelevant. Itās about deliberately insulting people which is a point
you brought up.
Preaching about deliberately insulting people while you deliberately insult people makes you look like a hypocrite.
Feel free to Snowflake, your tears don't bother me.
Apparently the truth does.
I am and I do. My parents immigrated here in the 80s when my mother was pregnant with me and I was both in Miami where I currently still live. Well Pembroke Pines but increasingly that's the same difference.
So how do you feel about your mother bringing you from a (presumably) woke paradise to the bigoted cesspool of America?
What hypocrisy? The imagined hypocrisy where I had all this love for African slavers?

Where have you proved any hypocrisy on my part?
Didnāt say you did.