Relationship Discussions Thread

[JOKER96BRAVO]

Wow.. Nasty, a pig, and an ass all in an hour.. You're on a roll.

Guess what's on my mind today???

 

[Joz]

Are you sure???
My ass is hard to mistake being so sexy and all.
J/K...You really think I'm an ass???

If I really tho't that....you'd know.

 

[Shattered]

Guess what's on my mind today???

I can't imagine.. Why don't you share with the class?

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

I can't imagine.. Why don't you share with the class?

I've tried but you all have turned me down.
Guess I have to buy you dinner first huh? :teeth:

 

[Joz]

Guess what's on my mind today???

Should I call and warn your wife?

 

[Shattered]

I've tried but you all have turned me down.
Guess I have to buy you dinner first huh? :teeth:

Pig. :tng:

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

Should I call and warn your wife?

Oh she knows.....
She found out this morning.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

Pig. :tng:

mmmmm BACON.......
Sounds good.
is that all I have to buy you first?

 

[Shattered]

mmmmm BACON.......
Sounds good.
is that all I have to buy you first?

:bat:

 

[Shattered]

mmmmm BACON.......
Sounds good.
is that all I have to buy you first?

Nice edit, punk.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

Uh oh....
SE is back.

Thought the nasty talk was done for the night didn't you?

 

[Nienna]

People don't realize that even if THEY are the ones who ended the relationship, and they are happy about the ending, there is still some grieving. It's natural. You need down time. You may even need counselling. And there is nothing wrong with that. And if you are the other part of the realtionship, there are probably more issues/anger you need to work thru.

We don't want to face our failings. We're lazy. We figure the person we meet will be the answer to our problems. You know, the "knight in shining armor" syndrome. Maybe you do find a connection with someone that will help you. But you need to go into a new relationship, fresh, with something to offer. Not something to get.

Exactly. Loving is about giving, not getting!

 

[manu1959]

Exactly. Loving is about giving, not getting!

totally agree....if you love me yall give me some....where you been all my life

 

[no1tovote4]

Exactly. Loving is about giving, not getting!

Loving is about both giving and getting. A truly healthy relationship will have give and take. If it is only about giving a girl/guy can truly be taken advantage of by one who is not willing to give any at all.

 

[dmp]

..actually...

Love is 'not' about getting. Love is purely unselfish.

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. Love is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

Id Est...

Love does not give up. Love is kind. Love is not jealous. Love does not put itself up as being important. Love has no pride.
Love does not do the wrong thing. Love never thinks of itself. Love does not get angry. Love does not remember the suffering that comes from being hurt by someone.
Love is not happy with sin. Love is happy with the truth.
Love takes everything that comes without giving up. Love believes all things. Love hopes for all things. Love keeps on in all things.
Love never comes to an end.

Id Est....

Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head,
Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end. Love never dies

 

[no1tovote4]

..actually...

Love is 'not' about getting. Love is purely unselfish.



Id Est...



Id Est....

It depends on what you are taking. If you truly love somebody what they give will be taken in the way it was given rather than judged.

For example, it is love when somebody gives you a gift that is accepted gratefully and willingly recognizing the motive behind the gift, even if it is something you already have, didn't like to begin with, and were ready to throw away yesterday but didn't have the time.

Love is recognizing the personal value of a gift even though the intrinsic value may be "too large" for you to accept politely, or "too small" to be of monetary value to yourself.

There is more to love than simply giving.

In short, it is important to realize that love can be accepting what others are giving as much as giving of yourself.

 

[Joz]

.......In short, it is important to realize that love can be accepting what others are giving as much as giving of yourself.

"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have".

 

[dmp]

"Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have".

That REALLY makes me feel bad about resenting my wife!

lol

 

[Joz]

That REALLY makes me feel bad about resenting my wife!

lol

WHY?? Just because you love someone or someone loves you, doesn't mean a thing. Love is......just love.
But if you or someone else is in a relationship where their needs aren't being met, then I think that it should be looked at very carefully. I'm not talking about being waited on and your every whim met. Each of us needs certain things that make us feel good/complete/connected/loved/etc. If you can't get them from the person you're with, what good is the relationship???

 

[dilloduck]

WHY?? Just because you love someone or someone loves you, doesn't mean a thing. Love is......just love.
But if you or someone else is in a relationship where their needs aren't being met, then I think that it should be looked at very carefully. I'm not talking about being waited on and your every whim met. Each of us needs certain things that make us feel good/complete/connected/loved/etc. If you can't get them from the person you're with, what good is the relationship???

alright--what needs are you talking bout here??