Relationship Discussions Thread

[Joz]

It would appear that she did.

So much for this conversation.
Now one of you come up with something.

 

[manu1959]

So much for this conversation.
Now one of you come up with something.

how is the wee one?

 

[GotZoom]

So much for this conversation.
Now one of you come up with something.

OK...here is one.

You are married/committed/involved.

Do you have a problem with your "significant other" going out with their friends to party at the bars/clubs on a Friday night (whatever night) while you stay home?

 

[dilloduck]

So much for this conversation.
Now one of you come up with something.

Ok---how about" Why don't some people get through all the pain and anger of a relationship gone bad BEFORE they start another one?"

 

[manu1959]

Ok---how about" Why don't some people get through all the pain and anger of a relationship gone bad BEFORE they start another one?"

no clue ....why can't you do that.............oh ya .....you like to suffer....

 

[dilloduck]

no clue ....why can't you do that.............oh ya .....you like to suffer....

It's fun being the target of your envy Manu !!! :teeth:

 

[manu1959]

OK...here is one.

You are married/committed/involved.

Do you have a problem with your "significant other" going out with their friends to party at the bars/clubs on a Friday night (whatever night) while you stay home?

my wife can do as she likes .... if she decides to hook up and or bail ...... nothing i can do ..... we'll miss ya

 

[Joz]

OK...here is one.

You are married/committed/involved.

Do you have a problem with your "significant other" going out with their friends to party at the bars/clubs on a Friday night (whatever night) while you stay home?

My situation is different. MM is always in this atmosphere, working. Do I trust him? Explicitly.
Now, if he wants time with the boys, good, get out of my face for a couple hours.

BUT don't come home falling down drunk. Don't leave me for hours on end. If you do get tied up, please make a phone call. Not like calling home to mommy, but out of sheer consideration. Have a good time. Be safe. (You get the kids NEXT Friday night!!)

 

[manu1959]

It's fun being the target of your envy Manu !!! :teeth:

damn i wish i could suffer like you.......ya narcissistic olde bastada....

 

[dilloduck]

damn i wish i could suffer like you.......ya narcissistic olde bastada....

You can----use that old mind control trick of yours ! :rotflmao:

 

[Joz]

Ok---how about" Why don't some people get through all the pain and anger of a relationship gone bad BEFORE they start another one?"

People don't realize that even if THEY are the ones who ended the relationship, and they are happy about the ending, there is still some grieving. It's natural. You need down time. You may even need counselling. And there is nothing wrong with that. And if you are the other part of the realtionship, there are probably more issues/anger you need to work thru.

We don't want to face our failings. We're lazy. We figure the person we meet will be the answer to our problems. You know, the "knight in shining armor" syndrome. Maybe you do find a connection with someone that will help you. But you need to go into a new relationship, fresh, with something to offer. Not something to get.

 

[manu1959]

You can----use that old mind control trick of yours ! :rotflmao:

i prefer talking to you....

 

[manu1959]

People don't realize that even if THEY are the ones who ended the relationship, and they are happy about the ending, there is still some grieving. It's natural. You need down time. You may even need counselling. And there is nothing wrong with that. And if you are the other part of the realtionship, there are probably more issues/anger you need to work thru.

We don't want to face our failings. We're lazy. We figure the person we meet will be the answer to our problems. You know, the "knight in shining armor" syndrome. Maybe you do find a connection with someone that will help you. But you need to go into a new relationship, fresh, with something to offer. Not something to get.

people like other people to feel sorry for them.....plus you get the pity fook that way

 

[Joz]

people like other people to feel sorry for them.....plus you get the pity fook that way

Sure, we all like a little sympathy. But when you carry this baggage around with you from relationship to relationship, it gets tiring. You begin to alienate yourself from people & relationships and you never seem to figure out why they just don't work. Why do I keep getting those same kind of guys who treat me (fill in the blank)? You need to take pause. Heal. Get rid of that garbage. Stop doing the same dance.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

people like other people to feel sorry for them.....plus you get the pity fook that way

I like the Make-up fook better.
(don't think I've never played the pitty fook card though)
:teeth:

 

[Joz]

I like the Make-up fook better.
(don't think I've never played the pitty fook card though)
:teeth:

You guys are nasty, I tho't it was a typo!!!

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

You guys are nasty, I tho't it was a typo!!!

:teeth:
Who????
ME?????

NEVER!!!!

 

[Joz]

:teeth:
Who????
ME?????

NEVER!!!!

I apologize. I must have mistaken you for some other ASS.

 

[JOKER96BRAVO]

I apologize. I must have mistaken you for some other ASS.

Are you sure???
My ass is hard to mistake being so sexy and all.
J/K

You really think I'm an ass???

 

[Shattered]

:teeth:
Who????
ME?????

NEVER!!!!

Wow.. Nasty, a pig, and an ass all in an hour.. You're on a roll.