Seriously?
How does one have control over what one is naturally feeling? You're asking to not be judged for your natural feelings, yet your expectation of other people is exactly that. And if they don't conform, then they're labeled. You have become that which you protested against, look in the mirror. And you can't go down the road of 'feelings can be changed' or 'behavior can change' since if that were true, it would be the same for homosexual feelings and behavior, wouldn't it?
So, which is it, can natural feelings be changed to the point where they go away, or can't they? And if they can't, should someone be ridiculed for having them and expressing them?
I'd say that less than half of the 'homosexuals' out there were born with different 'feelings' on the subject of sex.
For the ones that were born into the wrong body, for the ones where nature made a mistake (not unlike dwarfism or being born with a tail or two heads or three eyes).... I have nothing but sympathy for them.
But for a LOT of them, they're either sexual deviants or unwilling or unable to play their gender roles with success.
Few females fall into the sexual deviant category. Some, but not too many. Males? Oh hell yes.
A lot of Males become 'homosexual' because their particular brand of deviancy is too abhorrent for the average female partner to participate in.
Gay, butt-ranger males? Bring it on. Just a fact. That our resident dimocrap scum will deny it proves several points.
As for the rest? The kind we find a LOT? Really a lot?
Let me tell you something, people....
Being a woman is tough. It isn't just prancing around, having men ogle you and mentally undress you -- It's hard work.
They gotta spend time on their hair, their nails, their make-up, their eyebrows and lashes, their skin, their personal hygiene, their behavior, their.... Everything.
It's a whole package and it's hard work.
Not only is being just a woman hard work, but being a Wife and Mother is even harder.
It's crazy hard. Men won't pick up after themselves, they're lousy cooks, they won't do their own laundry half the time, they won't get off their butts and take the garbage out (guilty!).... We're too busy taking care of the important things in life.... Like watching football and drinking beer.
The hardest job in the world is being a Wife and Mother.
But not if you're lezbo.
Lesbians delight in looking like shit. In not plucking their eyebrows to the point that they look like Omar Sharif, in not shaving their legs or armpits and peronal hygiene with them is always a hit or miss affair.
Yeah, some of them have kids later on but that's only because they've committed themselves to the lezbo lifestyle so much that they can't find a man worth having a baby with. It's become a one way street for them. They passed the point of no return years earlier.
It's similar for male homos....
Way too many homosexuals just don't want to be bothered with being what they were born to be -- Women and Men. Because, you know what?
It's hard work. Being a Wife and Mother is hard work. Being a Man and providing for your family, sacrificing for them, defending them, working, scraping to make ends meet.....
It's difficult.
Homos don't have to worry about that shit.
Which is why a LOT of them are what they are.
Don't like it? Tough shit. The truth is always hard to take