And many gays have told me, they would not choose to be gay. The stigma they receive would not be worth it.
Isnt that true of just about every segment of our society we deem 'degenerate'?
What alcoholic would want to be an alcoholic?
There are many alcoholics that would choose alcohol over not. An easy way to escape reality.
No, I said choose alcoholism, or to be an alcoholic. They have difficulty refusing alcohol, but it is possible and many learn to do it with Faith in God and a commitment to amend their lives.
It can be done. The worst thing one can do to these people is to tell them that they are born this way and cannot change their spots.
Fortunately for alcoholics, Alcoholics are not yet an organized Dimocratic Party constituency.
A true gay can’t escape the reality.
Other than the 'True Scotsman' fallacy, you are also making presumptions, as many former homosexuals are living fine lives as normal heterosexuals.
Our sexuality exists along a gray scale of everything from asexuality to heterosexuality to bisexuality and homosexuality.
It is fluid and changes throughout our life time.
It is ironic that sexual orientation is now considered set in stone but gender is not.