People did live with the results. Many were highly disappointed to get a liberal in the White House but there wasn't a single call to harass electors, recount ballots or sign petitions. There were no protests. There was no rioting and violence in the streets. There were no demands for safe spaces or schools allowing students to delay tests. There were no therapy groups.
Each side will always criticize the other because the left and right have different ideologies. Disagreeing is expected. This goes far beyond that as people refuse to accept the results and are trying to overturn it.
The actions of some since the election is plain sick. Even some fake news people are claiming it's a national emergency. Maybe some do need therapy. Not because Trump won but because many are just unable to deal with reality.
After Obama was sworn into office as President, people led by Radio Talk Show hosts immediately starting calling out to 'take our country back'
Obama won in 2008 and in 2012 with over 50% of the vote, and beat his opponents handily in the electoral college.
There is tons of evidence out there of people whining, ringing their hands, demanding the GOP do everything to make Obama a one-termer
People demanded the President prove he was a citizen and accused him of being a secret Muslim.
We could go on, but I suspect you're as close minded as you are ignorant of facts