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It seems there are quite a few people at this site trolling and verbally attacking other members. I always try to stay on topic but am continually dealing with people trying to attack my character. I told one person to fuck off after a verbal attack and I got reprimanded for improper behavior.
I don't know you or the particular situation, but I think a certain amount of bias and prejudice cannot be avoided in human nature. And however much the mods try to be objective and fair in their duties here, they are human.
So I can believe that 'fairness' and 'objectivity' gets skewed now and then and sometimes I think rulings may be a bit different when dealing with people they like and admire and those they don't. When I was moderating it's hard to separate the history I had with some people from the a particular incident in which a decision had to be made. I tried to do that. Whether I was always successful who knows?
Maybe somebody thinks telling somebody to 'F off' is worse than calling somebody stupid or Nazi or telling them they hate gays or blacks or whatever the stupid accusation of the moment might be. I am not privy to who makes those decisions or how they decide them.
I doubt there are many insults--most are quite predictable and unimaginative--that haven't been thrown at me at some time or other. I doubt anybody has ever been reprimanded for that. I certainly have never reported anybody or demanded they be censured for it.
But there is a fine line between 'free speech' and what is unacceptable speech. I do think it somewhat arbitrary that it's okay to insult somebody by calling them a 'Nazi' or 'baby killer' or 'racist' or 'insurrectionist' or 'traitor' but you can't call them a 'pedophile' or a 'groomer.' Is one term really worse than another?
But I long ago accepted that those who own the territory get to make the rules.
A rule that members cannot accuse or insult each other would make things much more pleasant. Alas it would also probably pretty much empty out the population on the board.
I prefer not to attack people personally but make an argument for a concept or as rebuttal against theirs. But I understand everybody isn't me.