YBM's, when asked individually if they had been substantially harmed by discrimination, indicate that they have not. But of course they overwhelmingly believe that OTHER Blacks are oppressed.
Preferences are insidious, and the proof of it is the entitled attitude of young Blacks today. If the Supreme Court had drawn a line in the sand forty years ago and said, "End all discrimination. Hold everyone to the same standards and be done with it," then Blacks would know the standards by which they would be measured and they would also know that if they failed to meet those standards, or weren't competitive according to a universal standard that they were not being "oppressed," but that they had simply failed to make the grade. Just like everybody else who fails to make the grade.
The reason why Blacks are [statistically] sucking on the hind teat is that they continuously do the things and fail to do the things that will raise them up to be competitive with the greater society. No white racist is inducing single Black females to have kids, or YBM's to disdain academic excellence, or to engage in petty criminality or use recreational substances. That is ALL on the people doing that. And those failures are 90% of the reason for the dozens of "gaps" that Leftists like to showcase...the education gap, the income gap, the wealth gap, and so on.
It ain't racism. When you see actual racism that harms someone, dial 911 and EVERYONE will fight it together. But it simply does not happen to any great extent.