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Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive. a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
I assume you are referring to the word '******'. Your definition proves exactly the opposite of what you claim.
You claim it is only 'carries weight' if it is used against someone because or their race.
However, the very first words in the definition you posted (without a ******* link, I might add), are 'Extremely Disparaging and Offensive'.
Your posted definition does NOT state that it is only 'Extremely Disparaging and Offensive' when used against someone because of their race.
BUT FUCKED by your own sources, yet again.
EDIT:
Now I know WHY you did not provide a link. You were attempting to cherry pick the definition to suit your needs, and failed ,miserably.
****** | Define ****** at Dictionary.com
The term ****** is now probably the most offensive word in English. Its degree of offensiveness has increased markedly in recent years, although it has been used in a derogatory manner since at least the Revolutionary War. Definitions 1a, 1b, and 2 represent meanings that are deeply disparaging and are used when the speaker deliberately wishes to cause great offense. Definition 1a, however, is sometimes used among African-Americans in a neutral or familiar way. Definition 3 is not normally considered disparaging—as in “The Irish are the ******* of Europe” from Roddy Doyle's The Commitments—but the other uses are considered contemptuous and hostile.
noun
1.
Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive.
a. a black person.
b. a member of any dark-skinned people.
2.
Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive. a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
3.
a victim of prejudice similar to that suffered by blacks; a person who is economically, politically, or socially disenfranchised.
you skipped everything that did not fit your agenda, and went right for the 2nd definition, which STILL doesn't prove your asinine point.
As I said.. BUTT FUCKED by your own sources, again.