Exactly. And I don't want to be FORCED to pay for those that by their own poor choices put them in their predicament.
That's MY decision and one for MY charity, And *I* personally, don't want to be FORCED into charity by Gopvernment FIAT/Dictate. And this is what Obama/Congress wants to do.
I am with ya T. The political whores in Washington are using this issue to buy votes. "Look what we did for you. The X party wouldn't take care of you, but made sure that the federal government will. It is free for you." What a hellish scam.
I do what I can charity wise but it is not my responsibility to try and save the world as it were. I am not trying to be cold and heartless, but that is the way it is.
Some solice for you my friend. It is neither Cruel, not heartless to force people to understand that GOD gives us free choice, and we are ALL born with it as recognized with the formation of this Republic by the Founders.
Freewill is a good thing. Government's WILL by FORCE is bad. At least WE have learned this...er...umm, at least some of us have.
Be it yet your heart be still. for you're in the best of company, and the History of US, and the Founders has bourne this out. Their message was clear, and why apologize for it for the sake of apologizing to those that would take it from you?
Time to get mean. For it is forced upon you that propose to take your freedom, your very God-Given liberty from you.
So stop my friend.

GIVE 'em HELL, or have HELL imposed upon YOU by them, before they negate or OUTLAW your choice.
Time to STOP the enablers of BAD HABITS by others at YOUR expense.