Well, there's no way of knowing whether it's self-deception or just dishonesty. They may just be here to play games, and be nasty, and that's fine. It may just be this place provides some kind of catharsis for them, or a temporary self esteem fix. Whatever. Fortunately, I'm under no obligation to enable the behavior.
However, if you're right and it's self-deception, that another story altogether. I say it a lot - I'm fascinated by the behaviors partisan ideology from an amateur psychological / sociological / anthropological perspective. I think partisan ideologues like this really can talk themselves into almost anything, and that's interesting to observe.
Either way, trying to maintain a normal conversation with either of them is an abject waste of time.
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True.
It is disheartening though, how few posters, especially on the other side, who are willing to even try to address issues seriously and honestly.
It gets frustrating for me because I lean Left.
When a person has to lie to "make" a "point", then maybe that "point" is weak, y'know?
So their behavior constantly makes me re-examine my positions.
That's where we are right now in this country, and nothing improves until we can at LEAST be HONEST with each other.
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I constantly try to point that out to people.
If you have to lie to defend your point, that should be a huge sign that you might be wrong.
I read a line in a book, were a character had a moment thinking about how often the Truth was a problem for the people in the room he was in.
I also end up constantly rechecking myself too.
I have little hope that anything will improve in my lifetime. I am greatly concerned about the future.
To me, the problem right now is that people like this - both sides - have most of the energy and therefore the influence. I don't think they represent a particularly high percentage of the populace, but they definitely are the loudest.
Yeah, I don't see improvement any time soon either.
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I strongly recommend this book.
The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion - Kindle edition by Jonathan Haidt. Politics & Social Sciences Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
"His starting point is moral intuition—the nearly instantaneous perceptions we all have about other people and the things they do. These intuitions feel like self-evident truths, making us righteously certain that those who see things differently are wrong. Haidt shows us how these intuitions differ across cultures, including the cultures of the political left and right. He blends his own research findings with those of anthropologists, historians, and other psychologists to draw a map of the moral domain, and he explains why conservatives can navigate that map more skillfully than can liberals. He then examines the origins of morality, overturning the view that evolution made us fundamentally selfish creatures. But rather than arguing that we are innately altruistic, he makes a more subtle claim—that we are fundamentally
groupish. It is our groupishness, he explains, that leads to our greatest joys, our religious divisions, and our political affiliations. In a stunning final chapter on ideology and civility, Haidt shows what each side is right about, and why we need the insights of liberals, conservatives, and libertarians to flourish as a nation."