Again you make it too complex.
Most atheists did not wake up one day and say…..I think it would be cool to be an atheist.
It is a gradual process where you listen to the claims of religion and become skeptical
If you eventually reject all the claims…..you become an atheist
Atheism isn’t a neutral position, but many atheists argue as if it is. They demand evidence from others while applying no equivalent standard to their own assumptions, because they treat absence of belief as if it were the same thing as having no position at all. That’s why they often blur the line between atheism and agnosticism; it's a convenient pivot that avoids acknowledging the cognitive dissonance of holding a metaphysical stance without being able to prove it. They operate on unexamined premises like everyone else; they just prefer to believe their premises don’t count.
Many modern atheists don’t hold “no belief.”
They hold a belief about the nature of reality that they treat as if it were simply the default setting.
And then they wrap that belief in the language of neutrality so they can demand proof from everyone else while never examining their own premises. That’s not neutrality. That’s asymmetry.
Atheism is a metaphysical stance, and pretending it isn’t one creates a rhetorical loophole. The dodge goes like this.
1. “I don’t believe in God.”
2. “Therefore I have no position.”
3. “Therefore I need no evidence.”
4. "But, you DO need evidence."
That’s not skepticism. That’s a clever burden shifting trick. Agnosticism is actually the neutral position “I don’t know, I don’t claim to know.”
Atheism is “I believe no deity exists.” That is a claim about reality. It’s a metaphysical statement, even if people pretend it’s just “lack of belief.”