I find this controversy interesting in the sense that it’s so ridiculous. On the one hand, I find it laughable that conservatives see the “happy holidays” push as a threat to Christmas and Christianity itself. And on the other, I find it stupid that the PC-obsessed left thinks that the expression should be embraced and respected because of the supposed sensitivity atheists and other non-Christians feel about saying “Merry Christmas”.
The whole thing is so insane. I’m an atheist and I say “Merry Christmas”. I also don’t care if anyone chooses to say either expression in ANY context. Let’s all be adults and remember how important free speech is.
Let’s all be adults and remember how important free speech is.
I don't see it as a 1st Amendment matter. I see it as a matter of a recipient of the tiding recognizing the sentiment in which it's offered.
I'm not about to go out of my way to suss out whether the person to whom I'm speaking is a Christian or not. By "Merry Christmas" I mean "enjoy the period and good cheer that one may encounter around the date of December 25." If the recipient of my tidings because they also refer to the birth of Jesus, well, that's on them. If they ask me to explain, or mention that they are not Christian, or whatever, that's fine, and I'm happy to clarify that I made the remark with no religious sentiments in mind.
Sometimes I say "Merry Christmas" and sometimes I say "Happy Holidays." Which I say at any given moment has nothing to do with the faith-based belief system of the person(s) to whom I'm speaking at the time. It has everything to do with which comes first to my tongue. I can't say why one or the other rolls out first, nor am I seeking credible input in that regard.
Might it be possible that someone to a non-Christian say "Merry Christmas" as a slight of sorts? I suppose so, but whether to take the statement as a dig is for that non-Christian to determine based on what they know about the situation, the person who says it and the nature of their relationship to that person.
Almost annually at least a small few Muslim colleagues wish me "Happy Ramadan" -- in person, they say "
Ramadan Mubarak" and in writing, "
Kul 'am wa enta bi-khair" -- and I just say, "Thanks. You too." What else is there to do? I know damn well they're just being kind and offering glad tidings. And frankly, even though I'm not a Muslim, I'm perfectly fine with being peaceful and happy during Ramadan; I don't need to celebrate Ramadan to want that and appreciate someone's expression that I enjoy those things, at any time of the year, truth be told.