Now you are being really silly. Why are you trying so hard to defend people like Spacey and Weinstein and all the rest, including "my beloved" (NOT) colleague Norm in a bar? I haven't added my experience, actually experiences to "Me, Too," but why all the energy being put into denying that these things ever happened? They did. These bums did this stuff. The real target should be the people who do these aggressive things toward other, unsuspecting people. Why the attempts to hide their behavior?
I'm bashing these clowns who come out 40 years later as if they're being brave or noble. They're cowards who should have spoken up at the time and saved the hundreds of other #metoos. It's another chump movement by the same chumps as always.
There was no way to speak up 40 years ago and have anyone in authority believe you. I'm so happy that there are now avenues to do so. I don't think that it has anything to do with a person's thoughts about being "brave and noble," just that now they have been given a chance to voice what has been festering in their insides for so long. When Cardinal Bernard Law died a few weeks ago, I saw a news conference of Catholic priestly abuse survivors, two male survivors with gray hair, one middle-aged woman. One of the men said that he wanted Law's body chopped up and spread among several oceans.
It's nice to see the swamp being drained.
Of course there was a way. You simply report the behavior. That would have been noble, and protected the other victims, instead of yourself. To come out now as though they've done something special is typical of the breed. They are the same people who put on ***** suits and scream at the sky. Weak and meaningless protests that accomplish nothing but gives them a special club to belong to.
#NotMe.
What is the point of your animosity toward the victims. Are you trying to protect a perp?
Proper reporting procedures did not exist then. Our culture was so sick back then that many or most of those with authority to handle the complaints would do nothing to the perp and laugh at the victim and ask the victim about clothing or why she was there or did she drink alcohol. It was a culture of intimidating the victim. I say "she" because there was so much homophobia that any male reporting harassment by another male would instantly have an army behind him. We know of our cultural sickness of always blaming the woman first or accusing her of lying, and letting the perp off scot-free. It is too bad that nobody has ever kept a record of how many times guilty men have lied when confronted with harassment or rape allegations. Think of how many extra years the perps have enjoyed as a result of this cover-up culture.
I don't think that these victims speaking up about the past, even as far back as 40 years, accomplishes "nothing." Quite the opposite. They are getting results. Women and men alike.
One of the chief reasons that internet and social-media efforts like "Me, Too" are so important is that they provide a means for all persons victimized by the same person to find each other, although they were strangers in the past. This allows us to get a much clearer picture of what the accused individual has been like over time.
I recently saw a wonderful video made of an event, which I think occurred in Britain although I think that Americans were involved, when a woman invited her current boyfriend over, and he was greeted by a group of women comprised of victims whom he had conned financially by representing himself as romantically interested in each of them. They had managed to find each other via the internet.
I just don't see why anyone is trying to protect the perps. "Me, too" is getting the goods on them, draining the swamp.
The "Me, Two" movement will fade into the background when all the perps have been outed and all the victims' stories told. Then society will be caught up. It will leave behind an important achievement: the establishment of rules of conduct known to everyone, something that western society (don't know about other societies) has long neglected to establish up. Everybody wins except the scuzzies.