I think the driver could have provided that information however holding the men hostage for
an excessive length of time was also wrong and ill advised.
The law calls that harassment.
If I were visiting someone in a gated community, and I was stopped by and asked who I was there to see, I would have just told them. And I would have been nice about it to, not peevish like this doofus.
I would've said who the fuck are you?/move your goddamned car cause I have work to do, or I'm calling the cops!
So, did he called the cops?