Lesbianism vs Homosexuality

[DGS49]

Over the years I think I have come to understand that homosexuality is the male sex drive being directed to other males, rather than to females as God, biology, and logic would dictate. Not for me, but it seems apparent that for some tiny fraction of the male population, that's the way they are wired.

Lesbianism is something altogether different, and it is a puzzling thing indeed.

I recently watched a YouTube video (showed up on my feed for some reason) of a woman describing her realization that she was a lesbian. On a couple occasions she states that, "I was dating men and falling in love with women."

This does not compute, at least to me. "Falling in love" for men includes a large portion of sexual attraction in addition to emotional attachment. Sexual attraction, like it or not, is an inherent desire to copulate and make babies with the object of the attraction. Even for homosexuals, much of the attraction is the desire to "copulate" (oral and/or anal) with the object of attraction.

But for lesbians, what does it mean to "fall in love"? Surely there is emotional attraction, but what else? Is there a desire to - I don't even know what - that is part of the package of "falling in love"? Or do they add that because society expects it?

Stories of married women, usually with adult or nearly-adult children suddenly coming out as lesbians - suddenly "realizing' that they are lesbians.

What the ****? Anyone out there have any insights?

 

[pknopp]

Jesus said that not all men have been born with an attraction to women. Maybe you should take it up with him.

Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 19:12 - New International Version

For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

www.biblegateway.com

 

[Anomalism]

You've put a lot of thought into this. Lol

 

[Hafar1014]

Over the years I think I have come to understand that homosexuality is the male sex drive being directed to other males, rather than to females as God, biology, and logic would dictate. Not for me, but it seems apparent that for some tiny fraction of the male population, that's the way they are wired.

Lesbianism is something altogether different, and it is a puzzling thing indeed.

I recently watched a YouTube video (showed up on my feed for some reason) of a woman describing her realization that she was a lesbian. On a couple occasions she states that, "I was dating men and falling in love with women."

This does not compute, at least to me. "Falling in love" for men includes a large portion of sexual attraction in addition to emotional attachment. Sexual attraction, like it or not, is an inherent desire to copulate and make babies with the object of the attraction. Even for homosexuals, much of the attraction is the desire to "copulate" (oral and/or anal) with the object of attraction.

But for lesbians, what does it mean to "fall in love"? Surely there is emotional attraction, but what else? Is there a desire to - I don't even know what - that is part of the package of "falling in love"? Or do they add that because society expects it?

Stories of married women, usually with adult or nearly-adult children suddenly coming out as lesbians - suddenly "realizing' that they are lesbians.

What the ****? Anyone out there have any insights?

Homosexuality is normal aspect of sexuality. Women are more predisposed to be bisexual than men. Its caused by genes and experiences in life that turn the gene on. Thats called epigenetics. Identical twins are both gay 53% of the time not 100%.

 

[JoeB131]

Over the years I think I have come to understand that homosexuality is the male sex drive being directed to other males, rather than to females as God, biology, and logic would dictate. Not for me, but it seems apparent that for some tiny fraction of the male population, that's the way they are wired.

Lesbianism is something altogether different, and it is a puzzling thing indeed.

I recently watched a YouTube video (showed up on my feed for some reason) of a woman describing her realization that she was a lesbian. On a couple occasions she states that, "I was dating men and falling in love with women."

This does not compute, at least to me. "Falling in love" for men includes a large portion of sexual attraction in addition to emotional attachment. Sexual attraction, like it or not, is an inherent desire to copulate and make babies with the object of the attraction. Even for homosexuals, much of the attraction is the desire to "copulate" (oral and/or anal) with the object of attraction.

But for lesbians, what does it mean to "fall in love"? Surely there is emotional attraction, but what else? Is there a desire to - I don't even know what - that is part of the package of "falling in love"? Or do they add that because society expects it?

Stories of married women, usually with adult or nearly-adult children suddenly coming out as lesbians - suddenly "realizing' that they are lesbians.

What the ****? Anyone out there have any insights?

Sure.

Not everyone is your repressed, fucked up, bible thumping stupidity.

I suspect without religious programming, more people would be bisexual.

 

[Woodznutz]

"There once was a queer from Khartoum,
Who took a lesbian up to his room,
But they argued all night,
Over who had the right,
To do what, and with which, and to whom."

 

[MarathonMike]

Jesus said that not all men have been born with an attraction to women. Maybe you should take it up with him.

Bible Gateway passage: Matthew 19:12 - New International Version

For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

www.biblegateway.com

A "Eunuch" in biblical context is a man who has been castrated.

 

[pknopp]

A "Eunuch" in biblical context is a man who has been castrated.

Read it again.

 

[MarathonMike]

Read it again.

The Biblical passage you linked is referring to a life of celibacy, not homosexuality. Read it again.

 

[Woodznutz]

I suspect without religious programming, more people would be bisexual.

Why is that a good thing?

 

[Meathead]

Over the years I think I have come to understand that homosexuality is the male sex drive being directed to other males, rather than to females as God, biology, and logic would dictate. Not for me, but it seems apparent that for some tiny fraction of the male population, that's the way they are wired.

Lesbianism is something altogether different, and it is a puzzling thing indeed.

I recently watched a YouTube video (showed up on my feed for some reason) of a woman describing her realization that she was a lesbian. On a couple occasions she states that, "I was dating men and falling in love with women."

This does not compute, at least to me. "Falling in love" for men includes a large portion of sexual attraction in addition to emotional attachment. Sexual attraction, like it or not, is an inherent desire to copulate and make babies with the object of the attraction. Even for homosexuals, much of the attraction is the desire to "copulate" (oral and/or anal) with the object of attraction.

But for lesbians, what does it mean to "fall in love"? Surely there is emotional attraction, but what else? Is there a desire to - I don't even know what - that is part of the package of "falling in love"? Or do they add that because society expects it?

Stories of married women, usually with adult or nearly-adult children suddenly coming out as lesbians - suddenly "realizing' that they are lesbians.

What the ****? Anyone out there have any insights?

Lesbianism is homosexuality.

 

[The Sage of Main Street]

Lesbianism is homosexuality.

Something Broken During Development May Never Grow Straight

Gayism is not a sexuality; it is a personality defect.

 

[pknopp]

The Biblical passage you linked is referring to a life of celibacy, not homosexuality. Read it again.

Its referring as to how some are born without an attraction to the opposite sex.

 

[Chuz Life]

Over the years I think I have come to understand that homosexuality is the male sex drive being directed to other males, rather than to females as God, biology, and logic would dictate. Not for me, but it seems apparent that for some tiny fraction of the male population, that's the way they are wired.

Lesbianism is something altogether different, and it is a puzzling thing indeed.

I recently watched a YouTube video (showed up on my feed for some reason) of a woman describing her realization that she was a lesbian. On a couple occasions she states that, "I was dating men and falling in love with women."

This does not compute, at least to me. "Falling in love" for men includes a large portion of sexual attraction in addition to emotional attachment. Sexual attraction, like it or not, is an inherent desire to copulate and make babies with the object of the attraction. Even for homosexuals, much of the attraction is the desire to "copulate" (oral and/or anal) with the object of attraction.

But for lesbians, what does it mean to "fall in love"? Surely there is emotional attraction, but what else? Is there a desire to - I don't even know what - that is part of the package of "falling in love"? Or do they add that because society expects it?

Stories of married women, usually with adult or nearly-adult children suddenly coming out as lesbians - suddenly "realizing' that they are lesbians.

What the ****? Anyone out there have any insights?

As a lesbian trapped in a man's body, I can see why my lesbian sisters are attracted to other women. Most all boys and girls nursed on boobs as a baby. The boys who go from that to wanting to nurse on another male? Put things in their ass for pleasure? Yeah, we are clearly not the same. (to make you point in the OP a completely different way. )

 

[JoeB131]

Why is that a good thing?

Why is it a bad thing?

I had an aunt who we believe today was a lesbian.

But because she was brought up in a very strict Catholic family, she spent two years in a loveless marriage that produced a child she had no idea how to raise. That daughter became kind of a hot mess, four different kids by four different guys. Two of them went to prison. She eventually died alone, and her daughter blew threw all of her savings in a year before crashing and burning.

Now, imagine if she lived in a world that would have accepted her for who she was.

 

[Failzero]

You've put a lot of thought into this. Lol

Like the poster who says Moslems ( Muslims ) are different from Islamists

 

[Woodznutz]

Why is it a bad thing?

I had an aunt who we believe today was a lesbian.

But because she was brought up in a very strict Catholic family, she spent two years in a loveless marriage that produced a child she had no idea how to raise. That daughter became kind of a hot mess, four different kids by four different guys. Two of them went to prison. She eventually died alone, and her daughter blew threw all of her savings in a year before crashing and burning.

Now, imagine if she lived in a world that would have accepted her for who she was.

Sounds more like she didn't accept who she was. I have a gay nephew who has expressed anger that he was born gay. He is more upset about it than his family.

 

[Chuz Life]

As a lesbian trapped in a man's body, I can see why my lesbian sisters are attracted to other women. Most all boys and girls nursed on boobs as a baby. The boys who go from that to wanting to nurse on another male? Put things in their ass for pleasure? Yeah, we are clearly not the same. (to make you point in the OP a completely different way. )

*your point.

 

[JoeB131]

Sounds more like she didn't accept who she was. I have a gay nephew who has expressed anger that he was born gay. He is more upset about it than his family.

Oh, I agree, all that religious bullshit made it impossible for her to accept who she was.

It's why we need to get rid of religion.

 

[Failzero]

Oh, I agree, all that religious bullshit made it impossible for her to accept who she was.

It's why we need to get rid of religion.

Start with Islam