SILHOUETTE SAID:
“Please define, if you can, what binds together that particular group of people.”
Choice.
The fundamental right to decide for oneself matters both personal and private absent unwarranted interference by the state:
'In
Planned Parenthood of Southeastern Pa. v.Casey, 505 U.S. 833 (1992), the Court reaffirmed the substantive force of the liberty protected by the Due Process Clause. The
Casey decision again confirmed that our laws and tradition afford constitutional protection to personal decisions relating to marriage, procreation, contraception, family relationships, child rearing, and education. Id., at 851. In explaining the respect the Constitution demands for the autonomy of the person in making these choices, we stated as follows:
“ These matters, involving the most intimate and personal choices a person may make in a lifetime, choices central to personal dignity and autonomy, are central to the liberty protected by the Fourteenth Amendment. At the heart of liberty is the right to define one’s own concept of existence, of meaning, of the universe, and of the mystery of human life. Beliefs about these matters could not define the attributes of personhood were they formed under compulsion of the State.” Ibid.
Persons in a homosexual relationship may seek autonomy for these purposes, just as heterosexual persons do.'
LAWRENCE V. TEXAS
When gay Americans seek to enter into marriage as same-sex couples, pursuant to the protected liberty of choice as afforded them by the Constitution, where the states enact measures hostile to same-sex couples and their choice as individuals, those state measures violate the Due Process Clause of the 14th Amendment, reflecting an attempt by the states to disadvantage same-sex couples predicated solely on who they are, and the choice they've made “central to personal dignity and autonomy.”