I wish I could. That's the problem. I know that when a woman is attracted to a man, she's attracted to masculine qualities and a penis. So when a woman is attracted to women, why are about half of those supposed "lesbians" attracted to masculine qualities and a woman wearing a strapon penis?
I wish I could answer you with specifics on those very important questions. Trouble is, neither I nor you know how to answer them without pointing out the obvious closeted heterosexuality in roughly 1/2 of all "lesbians"......Yes, I'm "completely making up" that lesbians usually come in pairs with one looking/acting/seeming like a regular hetero woman while swaggering alongside her is what is for all intents and purposes an actual man, minus the penis. Yep. I'm the very first person to have noticed that as an actual phenomenon.
I'm not denying that some lesbian couples fit that description. I'm saying I don't think you really have much clue what most lesbian couples are like, and your sweeping generalizations about the desires of women and lesbians are as foolish as your generalizations about all homosexuals. I think you are pretty arrogant to think you can speak for all women and say what it is they find attractive in a man, or another woman for that matter.
Oh, I have an idea. I lived around the Bay Area San Francisco for some time. That's like living in Florida's swamp region and having someone tell you "I don't think you really have much clue what most alligators are like..." I know. And so does anyone else who's seen a lesbian couple. They know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. You can't remake reality by just talking it away.
That as a given, the lingering issue still remains, how can you pin a static status on a group that isn't even self-aware enough to see the glaring closeted hetero behaviors in their own population in order to argue that they have "special class and rights and priveleges"? They literally don't even have a firm grasp on their own ranks that shift around from day to day or year to year. That's because
behaviors in homo sapiens are not reliably static.
So, that FACT presents a very sticky problem for your legal premise.